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discreetexplorer

DiscreetinRI
Male Submissive, 28, Los Angeles, California
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discreetexplorer - Male Switch,  California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About discreetexplorer

I may be 33, but I don't look or act it (though I can if necessary.) I'm a college student, who is of mixed heritage, but I look mostly white. I'm currently in the process of getting more healthy (because I don't like the extra weight) and enjoy reading. I am highly focused on my studies at school. If you are looking for someone to make you a #1 priority at all times, you should look elsewhere. I have a highly busy and active academic and social life, though I will try to get online at least a few times a week. Perhaps later, I'll have a way to chat me directly, but for now, mail messages here will have to suffice.

Please Respect my Disclaimers

First of all I'm a switch. Don't try to tell me I'm not. I love losing control, and yet, the sight of a woman who trusts me to help her experience something she wishes... the sight alone of her in that state, makes me just as turned on and pleasured as losing control.

Second: If you're looking for someone with a ton of money, look elsewhere. I'm a re-entry college student. I'm not looking for money, nor do I think I should give someone money for a relationship. They are built on trust and experiences, not how fat your or my wallet is.

Thirdly: There is a lot I've tried or experimented with, to some degree of success or not. Things sometimes seem easier to accomplish in your mind, than they are in reality. If you have advice, I welcome it. There are still a lot of things I'd just like to see done successfully so I have an idea of how to do it myself. Or allow someone to do to me. Yes, you may think it's horrible that I would like to be a voyeur in some aspects, but I'm highly interested in the practical applications of some of the more complicated semi-dangerous pursuits. And if you don't think some of our passions are semi-dangerous, then you probably shouldn't be here.

Lastly: At the moment, I'm just exploring privately. Don't bother to try to cyber me, or ask for phone sex. I welcome conversation and am happy to learn. If anyone has tips, please feel free to send me a message.

Okay, so apparently "Discreet" in these circles means "Married." This is NOT the case. I am refusing to change my handle because people seem to only see one thing. I probably wouldn't want to deal with such closed minded people that Discreet must equal married. First, I choose it, because I'm not blatant about my curiosity. Second, I would prefer to be discreet in person, in public, while around other people. I'm not going to shout it out to the world. 

 

More importantly, I'm sorta having a good time. I need to update my profile again. Whee.

I'm a little overwhelmed of course by the amount of things to fill out on the profile. Could it get much longer? I know what most of it is, or at least have a good idea, but that doesn't mean I know it all. Sheesh, so many more terms to look up. I suppose I should finish editing my profile. Cheers!

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