discreetbutpicky

I'm 46 but look younger, dark hair, dark eyes very fit and generally very happy with my life. There is a part of me that I haven't had the chance to fully explore..that is very strong...and that is being a very creative, sensual dominant person who enjoys taking control and leading the way with a woman who is very turned on by the idea of relinquishing control and being submissive. I"ve had sone experience with this kind of relationship and I believe it can be incredibly intense and exciting and enjoyable and that it actually starts with both people respecting each other and understanding that there are just different roles we each find compelling and rewarding.

I want to be very upfront that I am attached and ideally I"m hoping to find someone esle who is also attached and understands an can relate to how big a part of you the desire to experience and explore this can be. Either that or someone that isn't attached but is non-judgemental and is okay with my situation. I'm NOT out to go sleep around. I"d really like to find someone special who I can share intense times with when the opportunities arise and who can and wants to keep in touch via email and on the phone etc. when possible. Someone who understands that life is short and time goes by fast and who doesn't want to wake up one day and wish they explored or did more. I'd like to find someone who is also generally happy and who doesn't have major issues or problems and who can be discreet and safe and reliable. I'm a very very creative person and if I find the right person my mind will constatntly be creating new scenarios that will keep you turned on and excited and you'll experience things that youv'e never expereience before that will excite you beyond belief. I'm not looking for skinny models but am looking for someone that takes care of their body and who I find attractive. I know that varies for lots of people but it's easy enough to find out after we've chatted. My hope is to connect first maybe chat online or email a few times and if there is a connection exchange pics to see if there is also a physical attraction and then go from there.