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Male Dominant, 21, leesville, Louisiana
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Transgender Submissive, 37, Warwick, Rhode Island
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Male Submissive, 73, Hampton Roads, Virginia
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About DirtyHeartBlues
Of note: My best friend told me recently, "The people that draw you are like art. They've got some color and sparkle to them. There's nothing wrong with that. You will never look back and say, "oh yes, that guy... they just all blend together." You look for somebody who sparkles, who is unlike everyone else. This is to be admired, my dear." These words describe what I seek in such a perfect way, and I don't think I could ever have said it better.
I'm a poly queer kinky switch, with many passions, quirks, and charms - all of which tend to come out in conversation.
I'm bright and shiny and all things rainbows and kittens. I'm scatterbrained, but not an idiot. I'm the girl that stops to look at the shiny pretty thing - the flower, the shoes, the interesting bug (that doesn't look like it has painful pointy bits to use on me). I love owning shoes, and hate wearing them. I'm a hippie at heart, trying to find the motivation to conform to corporate standards and failing about half the time. I'm allergic to my favorite beer, I still have my ViewMaster from when I was a kid, and my room is always a mess.
I am a cluttered dusty attic of a girl, which means I'm full of fascinating little corners, strange old toys, skittery mice, and will possibly make you sneeze.
Staying home makes me happy a good portion of the time. I love cuddling up to consume media and share personal space. I'm a horrid cook, though I love to surround myself with foodies. Go me for having good taste. ;)
I am incredibly picky. As a general rule, I do not play casually with new acquaintances. I need time to get to know someone, or a reputation that speaks to the responsibility and honesty of my potential play partner. Submissives are put under even more scrutiny, and have to jump through rather impressive numbers of hoops to gain my trust and affection.
I do not seek a harem. I seek partners, whether romantic or strictly play, that I trust and enjoy deeply. I would rather go without than play with someone I did not know well, like, and/or trust.
Wanna try?
Give it a go. Send me a message, and we'll see how things roll. I do have some very basic rules, though - please keep these in mind for your message.
*Proofread your message. I don't appreciate netspeak, poor grammar, or laziness. Show me that you can form a sentence, that you have made the effort to at least learn to spell the common terms in our lifestyle (I am not a "dominate", that's what I do).
*Do not address me with a title of any kind. Miss is the closest thing I will accept, and that's merely because it is acceptable as a general term of respect. Use my screen name, a variation of it, or its abbreviation if you must reference me by name.
*While you're at it, just leave out the whole D/s dynamic. A first message to me should be respectful of my status as a human being, not as a dominant woman or a potential bottom (though that last bit is less likely). I do not play to potential wank-fodder, and will not reply to messages full of groveling or pushiness. Flattery will get you nowhere here. Honesty, however, will.
*Show me your personality, your backbone, your consciousness. I seek people, not service. Chemistry will make or break any chance of getting somewhere with me.
I post these because they are important to me, not as a judgment on others. I find that people who do not share these priorities tend to not be people I get on well with. I also like to see if people actually read this far, and figure out how to follow basic requests. If you've made it this far, please show me - tell me your favorite color. |
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