dirttyblonde99

Gentlemen...if we seem to be compatible (on more than a sexual level), and you have no intention of coming here to meet me within a few weeks, then please don't contact me. I'm not in the business of getting your cock hard for you so you can jack off in front of the computer. The fact that there are so many of you for whom that seems to be the desired result of our contact I find dismal and very disturbing.

Seriously? you think that's great? I don't. I like the real thing. I like the feel of your hands, the look in your eyes, and how my body feels when you are inside me. I like the taste of you and feel of you getting harder in my mouth.

I am a very tactile and sensual creature. If you don't appreciate that, and share that, then please do not contact me.

Thanks!

The man I am seeking can best be described as a Senior Partner. If you know what that means, then I may well be exactly the right woman for you.

Just a quick question:

Do you think there are any men on this site who can be drama free? Or who would prefer to live a drama free life?

Seriously, gentlemen..I am soooo tired of the drama...

Well, here we are again. Things to clear up to avoid any misconceptions...sigh.

First, I do volunteer work. I work at the local VA and I do some volunteer work for a women's shelter. As a job, I work for a non profit that serves intellectually and developmentally disabled children and adults.

THESE THINGS ARE NOT LIKELY TO CHANGE  with your inclusion in my life. I will not give up volunteering or working for the greater good to spend more time talking to you on the computer. I will not quit showing up to help people because you feel neglected. I have a good balance in my life and I would hope that you would not only respect that, but also want to be part of it in some way.

If you are the type of man who needs all my attention every second, please do not contact me. You will waste both our time and that is a tragedy. I am hoping to find a man who also wants his own life and space from time to time.

If you live out of state and we hit it off, and I eventually relocate to you, please know that I would like to continue to volunteer at least a few hours a week at an organization local to us. My first preference would be VA, but there are usually many choices. I imagine you would have your own interests as well whether its sports, or golf or your motorcycle, or...whatever.

Seriously...how can I maintain my feminine allure if we are joined at the hip 24/7? I think being together 24 hrs. a day on weekends or long trips would be wonderful--- but every day, all the time?  How can you miss me if I'm always there??  :)

Thanks! Stay safe, gentlemen.  :)

Its been an interesting couple of weeks. I've found out there are some misconceptions regarding me that I decided were important enough to clarify.

It has been brought to my attention that many of you gentlemen believe that BBW's are "damaged" in some way..emotionally or psychologically. I, too, have seen Dr. Phil. I cannot speak to the mental or emotional experiences or stability of other ladies on this site, but for me, neither of those is true.  If you are seeking one to be "rescued" or "fixed" or whom may be suffering from stunted emotional growth, I am not your girl Daddy.

I am well adjusted, mentally sound, emotionally stable and healthy. I do not need, nor do I want, to be "fixed" and the only thing I would enjoy being "rescued" from is boredom.  My current physical state is due to being Bored Beyond Belief combined with an unfortunate ability to cook extremely well and bake even better. :)  I trust that my Daddy will take the situation and I in hand and set it right because he wants me to be the best I can be. And, I doubt my new Daddy will leave me time to be bored. :)

I am here for these reasons:

I crave, no, I need a man who is strong--stronger than me--and knows the difference between guiding and forcing. A man to help me let out my inner slut and develop her into what she should be, can be, and wants very much to be. Eventually, in the right hands, no limits, no concerns, just new experiences and lots of healthy sex!

My submission is not due to some lack in my emotional development, but due to knowing what makes me happy. I have a need to make a man happy--to please him on any level possible--most especially sexually. Your smile sets my heart free, your touch makes it sing.

Ok..that being said....thank you for reading this and for understanding this is a choice for me, a conscious, willing, freely-given choice made by an intelligent, fun loving, deeply passionate woman. A woman not driven by past wounds or emotional issues, but one focusing on the future, not on the past.  :)

Daaaaaaaadeeeeeeeee.......I just love the way you smile.  :)

I have borrowed this from a Dom's profile site..it is the simplest and best definition of the differences between subs, slaves, and Daddy's girls...(I am the latter).

Ok, pretend its Super bowl Sunday (ok if you don't watch football pretend its a really good movie or something but you're not moving for about 2 hours):

A sub figures out what to get, makes it, and sits in the other room playing cards with friends until her Dom yells out to bring him something.  She may or may not finish her hand before doing it.

A slave is told exactly what to make, has it ready and sits at her masters feet until he tells her what and when to bring him things.

A little girl knows darn good and well what her Daddy wants, she has it all ready with TV tray loaded when the game starts... why? Because she is gonna make sure that man doesn't get up so she has him to snuggle with for a whole 2 hours. Who cares about the game.. Daddy’s stuck and not moving *smiles*

What’s your definition?

It seems that I need to clarify why Im on this site....I'm here to find (or to be found by) a man looking for a wife who is into the bdsm lifestyle. I am not here to send you naked pictures or to fulfill your online fantasies by following long distance "orders" via cam.

If you are seriously seeking a lt, real time relationship and you are single, please feel free to contact me. I would love to get to know you--ALL of you, not just the kinky parts, although that part is VERY important to me. Discussing our desires or needs does not mean we have to role play them or you have to ask me for naked photos. That's not why Im here and if you're contacting me, you should be interested in all parts of me, not just the 44dd's.  :)

Have a great day!!  :)