didacticcudgel

I am a poly, geeky, married man who crossdresses and plays with gender expectations looking for a woman who finds that to be an interesting start to a relationship and not a cause to run. I know that this is a BDSM-focused site, but I'm pretty vanilla, but I'm looking here because there be open minds here.

I have longish brown hair and green eyes, am intelligent, witty, funny and quite geeky. I am fully employed, drug-free and very down-to-earth.

I'm seeking a woman to spend time with, have fun together, and be the Kaylee to my Simon. My wife is Inara to my Mal (I'm her big damn hero). (I told you I was a geek!)

I'm bicurious, but focusing on women now.

If you are between 25 and 35 (there's some wiggle room there), attractive, fun, smart, funny and preferably at least a little geeky. Obviously an open mind is required.

I'm not looking for casual sex or friends with benefits, I'm looking for a woman to build a real, full, loving relationship with.