DEsubmissive

 I am single/no kids. None smoker drug free. My weight is 180 pds. (and yes, I do want kids some day)
I live in the central coast, CA
  I am not of the belief that I am less than simply because I am a female. I do not subscribe to this type of Neanderthal thinking.
I want a Dom who is a gentlemen as I am a lady, unless told not to be. (heeh, he) I need a Dom who has exp, is patient, protective, insightful and likes training new comers and helping me grow. I want to feel wanted, needed and cherished to the core.
I am playful, sensitive, spiritual, thoughtful, very affectionate and just plain nice. (looking for the same in others)
Respect, intimacy and trust are essential!
  I want to be able to instinctly access your needs and meet them. This is joy to my heart!.  I would like  to be your haven, your rejuvenation, your salvation and sexually your addiction.

Do to some of the messages I have received. I really feel the need to mention the following:
I am not or ever will be into married men, children, bestiality, bisexuality, face slapping, breath play, drinking my blood, your blood, or anyone Else's blood!
And  if we ever get intimate condoms are a must.
Up date: 11/06/06 
i have yet to find a Master of my own and be collared however; i have been invited to become part of the family at La Domain chateau.
up date:Aug 20, 2007
now living back in Californias Central Coast.
                             "Namaste"
A little more about me that i would like you to know. i think it's important. i was not born submissive by nature. Actually i'm kinda stubborn and at times argumentative (when trying to get to the bottom of things), but i do not want to be this way. In my heart i want to serve a strong man. Someone, i respect and look up to. i have met slaves that are submissive by nature and watch them closely and that's just not me. No matter how hard i try.
  i can be shy when it comes to sex. i have been known to giggle and use humor as a defense for my nervousness, but i think with the right Dom that will change. I kinda think about it this way, there are different types of clay you can buy, colors , textures and so on, but they can all be molded in to a masterpiece under skilled hands.