Well im trying to find new things. I am happy in my life the way it is, but it has been qite vanilla. I need a little excitement. I would like to go out locally and find some new friends. Any ideas?

Today is a new day. I am a good person and a good woman. I did not get on this site to find a new dom. I got on this site to find like minded friends close around me so I can figure out where and when to go to social gatherings events and parties. I am a freak I cant help that, but a slut I am not, to anyone but my partner (which I do not have presently). I am on a journey to find me so I am not looking either. I am presently searching for friends around TAMPA to find places to go to meet new people. Please, if you have any info let me know!! THANK YOU!!!

                   Not refering to the scene just personal questions

 

 Loving yourself is the hardest thing to do especially when someone is constantly degrading you and accusing you of untruthful things. You know in your heart that these things are not true but someone else can make you feel bad about them anyway. Why?  

Why is it when we try our hardest to make someone else happy we tend to lose site of what makes us happy?

Is it truley nessesary to hurt someone else just because you are hurting?

      OK JUST SOME QUESTIONS if anyone is willing to answer them....

Seem to be finding that most people want to throw thier views and opinions on you before they even get to know you. I am who I am I have been upfront and honest. I am looking for friendships nothing more right now til I can clear my head. I am very busy and if I do not promptly return an email it doesnt mean anything except im busy!!! Impatience and ugliness will not get you anywhere but blocked. Thank you for your inquiries, but like I said PATIENCE and RESPECT!!!!

Turning your back on the rest of the world and shutting yourself down from the world does not improve your situations. You have to open up and let someone help you sometimes. Deal with them , heal them , live, love, laugh and dont wallow in the past. Move forward. There is nothing we do for someone else if we cannot do it for ourselves.