Simply put, I am looking to expand my family. The most preferable extension of my family (but certainly not the only possibility) would be a slave or two to own, control, play with, and be intimate with. But I am open to other possibilities.
These words mean different things to different people. When I talk about family, I believe that a person should be able to choose their family for themselves, and not just be stuck with the ones we are biologically related to. Family are people that you love with all of your being; ones you ultimately believe you cannot live without. This is much deeper than friendship, marriage, or romantic love. Think Catherine and Vincent from the TV series "Beauty and the Beast".
Ownership, to me, means that she will give herself and and her property to me, and I will do whatever I want with her. I may have her name changed if I don't like the one she came with, and I will most likely have all of her legal rights transferred over to me. I will decide what she wears, what she eats, how she acts, and what she does. She will be become like my child.
Control and play go as far as our limits take us. Control consists of personality and behavior modification and sensory reprogramming, primarily through hypnosis, which can be both quite painful and extremely pleasant depending on the extent our imaginations. I will change her perception of reality. Through hypnosis, she will realize that she enjoys things she never liked before, and will no longer desire things that she once wanted. She will cum on command repeatedly, and she will ride the edge of orgasm without being able to cum. She will believe she is wearing clothing she doesn't really have on, and she will believe she is naked in a room full of people when there is no one around. She will become different people, each with different beliefs, desires, and moral codes; sometimes for a long time, and sometimes her personality will change with the wind. Some of the changes I make to her will end when she wakes up from trance, and others will remain for the rest of her life.
Play is very important to me; in fact, it is pretty much central to my being. I am a very happy person; I am easygoing and I take life lightly. I like to laugh, have fun, and enjoy life, and I deeply enjoy seeing others do the same.
Intimacy is critical to being human; without it, we wither and die.
These things are all interconnected. Family is the core unit of intimacy. Intimacy is a part of play: I don't hang out in large groups but instead enjoy very small groups or one-on-one interactions. Play is a part of control: the enjoyment I get from controlling someone is at the core of my being. Control is a part of ownership, for without ownership there is no true control. And ownership is a part of intimacy; what other relationship can possibly be more intimate than that of owner and owned?
I am open to both short- and long-term relationships. I don't subscribe to the social norm that the only good relationship is lifelong. But I also am not a user or a player and can recognize a good thing despite its duration. Ownership, like any relationship, can last one day or a lifetime.
My slave will become a part of my family in addition to being a servant and a toy. I will depend on her as I depend on my house, my car, or my other family members. She will be important to my well-being. I use what I own, but I abuse nothing (at least nothing that doesn't want to be abused...).
So who am I and what do I do? First, the vanilla side...
I am a fun, honest, caring, sensitive guy who is very demanding, and has high expectations. I am employed as a computer programmer. My likes include Caribbean cruises, roller coasters, video games, going to the movies, watching television, and dancing. I love conversation and going to the beach.
I currently work near New York City and live in Austin, Texas, but I have previously lived in California, Florida, and Germany. I go where the work is, and I live where I am happiest.
I do not smoke or do drugs, and drink on rare occasion (two to three times a year). I am financially stable, and take on all levels of responsibility for my life and what I desire.
Then there's the BDSM side...
I am into (giving, not receiving) hypnosis, sensory refocusing (making imagination seem real), inducing mild to moderate pain, biting, spanking, tickling, freezeplay, sexual teasing/torture, exhibition. I am NOT into scat, blood, or extreme pain.
I have a dark side that would scare the hell out of most people. If you want to know more, you'll have to get to know me...
My slave's duties will include housework, cooking (sharing the kitchen with me, as I like to cook), and just being with me. She will be trained for any skills that she does not already possess.
Experience is irrelevant. Intelligence is important. Health, attitude, appearance, and energy level are key. A deep desire to serve is paramount.
Since I am looking for a real relationship and not an online game, I expect to meet my potential slave in person soon after our initial electronic communication. I believe that meeting face-to-face is far safer for both of us than communicating online because then we can actually see each other for who we are, instead of the illusion we can present through the computer.
If you think I am who you are looking for (and you have what I want), contact me. Don't wait for me to find you; I am doing my best to look for you, but we can't just rely on coincidence to find each other. Even if you are not 100% sure we are compatible, but you are located in the Austin or New York City areas, or are just interested in being hypnotized, contact me anyway. You never know until you try...
