DesertWolf7

You must be intelligent, and be able to hold your own in a conversation with me. You must be able to relish the complex dynamic in a real-life D/s, be able to communicate your needs and hear mine. You must understand that everything evolves, and where we find ourselves may not be where we started, and that this is an opportunity for growth for both of us. You must appreciate the inherent paradoxes that exist -- that in some ways, every sub must "top from the bottom" in subtle ways to truly be satisfied, and that every leader is in some ways a servant to those who he (or she) leads. You must be a feminist, which may sound strange, but it is terribly sexy to me to find an intelligent articulate woman who can wax the philosophic, yet thrives in her submission. Bonus points for glasses, more bonus points for being able to get your geek on. I prefer a certain natural, granola type, who appreciates the outdoors.

Please be unshaved and have a minimalist approach to make-up. I am not looking for barbie. You must be fully orgasmic or multi-orgasmic, and if not, be willing to learn. I am not strict or "merciless," in fact, I think the whole concept of mercy is complex and often misunderstood. I am a good teacher. Denial of pleasure will not be severe, and will happen only in serivce of increasing pleasure. You must feel free to laugh and play and flirt with ease.

I have curiosity about an eventual TPE relationship, but I do not beleive this is possible in a healthy way right off the bat. This would have to evolve over time.

I only ask for the most difficult thing, which is honesty.