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Male Dominant, 46, Lancaster, California
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Male Submissive, 50, LAS VEGAS, Nevada
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Male Dominant, 62, tristate area, Arizona
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About DesertSuperRat
I am serious and responsible, but also casual and fun-loving. I'm fit and, all things considered, healthy, too. I love my cats, other cats, music, fast cars, motorcycles, cats, books, bikes, cats, and the outdoors. In my personal and professional life I try to be honest and ethical. I don't smoke, drink or do drugs, but don't mind if others do. I'm an experienced, dominant man who can be loving and affectionate with the right girl, but who was once called 'wickedly sadistic' by a former slave. That was perhaps an oversimplification at the time, but I have indeed enjoyed inflicting varying degrees of erotic pain, so the likely possibility of incorporating it into the relationship will be fully explored. I also enjoy administering other forms of harshness, but I definitely prefer someone who does not want to be treated with extreme, body-damaging, brutality. Canes, crops, and whips are wonderful, but I have no desire to hang anyone from the ceiling with hooks sunken into large muscle groups, for example. No matter what, preferences will be determined early on in the relationship but we will most assuredly spend considerable amounts of time in some very dark spaces. I am looking for a very special girl. She'll enjoy the feeling of belonging to a strong, balanced, and well sorted man; she'll be well cared for, and should be ready and willing to learn to please me. A willingness to not just give, but to also accept pleasure in many forms is also a requirement. Previous experience is not necessary. Surrender is. A very hot, monogamous, long-term Master/slave relationship is the goal. Age 'play', as such, does not hold strong appeal for me, but I do like the feelings I experience when my girl is significantly younger than me. Those feelings could conceivably extend into the realm of the 'Daddy Dom' as defined by some, but surely not by all. That said, I am not looking specifically for someone way younger but I surely do not rule out that possibility. (duh, what a surprise, eh?) Intelligence is more important than education, but both are turn-ons for me. In addition to our 24/7 TPE, did I mention having a sense of humor? That is very important. How about communicating clearly? Does the importance of that even need to be said? I expect to make use of, and to enjoy everything my girl has to offer, always in the context of our bond as Master and slave. Please re-read that last sentence carefully. If you can't wrap your mind around the concept, then you're not the one for me. Must be willing to eventually relocate to a rural--but NOT remote--setting in the wooded foothills of the Sacramento Mountains in southern New Mexico. It is possible to find the finer cultural experiences here, but it takes a little more effort. There's not much "nightlife" here but that's okay with me--I'm not really into that, and I know where to find it if I want it. There is hipness here but it's not exactly New York* or Paris*. This is a great place to explore, hike, camp, and stargaze. The desert is a very beautiful and a very romantic place, especially at night. Naturally, I will help with the relocation to whatever extent is necessary. I am willing to spend whatever amount of time is needed in order to really get this right. Additional note: I have cats. They're very nice. You don't have to love them as I do, but you will have to be nice to them. Final note (no exceptions): There will be no poly, no sharing, and no Republicans. *Yes, I've been there. |
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In a darkened room. The room smells bad. A man in stained boxers pulls the venetian blind away from the frame and peers outside into the incredibly bright street. The street smells bad. The window's closed but you can tell by the look that the street smells bad.
"Earth."
"Shit."
"I was still on Earth..." |
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Man, am I glad that's over! I wrote a history of the El Paso Valley from 12,000 B.C. to Wednesday of last week. I did tons of research for it and it will probably take me several days to get my office back in order. I spent a lot of time beating myself up about it but I like what I've done. |
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If you could meet and hang out for a day with someone famous, who would it be? I'd say Bill Murray for sure. Probably Dennis Farina and Bruce Willis, too. It's gotta be someone smart with a wacked-out sense of humor. |
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Well, St. Valentine's Day 2010 was probably one of the best days ever. Then, it was immediately followed (starting on 2/15/10) by 90 days of sheer Hell which peaked in May then just kind of gradually farted itself away. Valentine's Day 2011 is pretty much nothing to me. Or maybe it's a sigh of relief. Ducked another bullet. Compared to last year, 2011's 'nothing' is an improvement. Here's to 2012...sure to be a good one. |
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I think "The Fifth Element" is the greatest film ever made in the history of the universe. And, no, it's not just because of Korben Dallas's cat, Sweetie. |
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I'm watching "Cherry 2000". Yeah, I know...notify the press... I used to want one of those things. Or thought I'd like one. I don't want one now, so I guess I might be showing some growth. Holy shit. |
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I stacked a metric shitload of firewood today. Considering that the temps all last week and today have been in the 70s, the wood I stacked may well be a lifetime supply. A couple months ago, I couldn't have done this. In fact, I was starting to wonder if I'd ever be able to do such things again. Whew! |
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Joe Gideon (Bob Fosse), recovering from major heart surgery asks God: "What's the matter? Don't you like musical comedy? |
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