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Male Dominant, 46, Lancaster, California
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Male Submissive, 50, LAS VEGAS, Nevada
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Male Dominant, 62, tristate area, Arizona
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About DesertLake
Hello! Like a lake found in the Desert, I'm not ordinary. I'm a true dominant who understands the nature of power exchange. I also understand that exchange can take many different forms. I am not searching for a submissive, but I am a teacher and therapist, and enjoy talking to others in the lifestyle. I do want to help others to learn the lifestyle, to be safe, to recognize the nuts and the "I centered" who are rampant in this lifestyle.
So, if you have questions or would like to chat, I'm here. |
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I keep noticing profiles that say they want someone "real." But I have yet to see one that says "I'm not real." If they don't seem right to you, then trust your instinct and run. And take the time to let them slip up and let you know they are fake or a predator etc. But know that no fake is going to say they are fake. They might not even know they don't konw what they are doing. But you should be able to know that if you look hard at them, trust your instinct and what your friends tell you. |
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ummm why would you write something in your journal, presumably so that others will see and read it, and use a font or a color that makes it almost impossible to read? |
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So, ummmm, why do you bother saying things like: "only real Doms" or no fakes etc? The fakes aren't gonna pay attention to that, and so you'll have to filter them out yourself. So don't bother with that silliness. Either be able to filter them out, or get help from someone who can be objective. |
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sigh. So many "dominants" who don't have a clue what that means. So many who think that just because they bark an order, someone will jump to obey. Have you no sense of relationships? No idea that being the Dominant is hard work, that the Dominant works harder than the submissive?
Be very careful of the dominant pretenders. Before you meet with someone, make sure you have safeguards in place. If you don't know how to do that, email me and I'll coach you. |
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