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About DesaturatedBlue
I prefer not to post my photo for public viewing, but if you interest me I will be glad to provide one via private message.
I am not submissive in the sense of being weak or passive. I am confident, muscular, toned, intelligent, and alpha in my day-to-day life. I have little interest in typical submissive male fantasies, rituals, etc. What I want is a relationship with a special lady, someone whom I will serve and protect.
Perhaps that sounds vague, so here are a few items to help out:
I keep myself in good shape, and I expect the same in a partner. I prefer a slim body type and mid-length or longer hair.
I love going down on my partner, and prefer a relationship where my service is expected, enjoyed, and not necessarily reciprocated. I receive pleasure from pleasing my partner. I do not expect oral reciprocation, and find it a huge turn on when I do this for my partner regularly while I am denied the same.
I am a tender lover. I am a skiled masseur and enjoy giving my partner long, full-body massages. I like to take my time gently kissing and caressing every inch of her body. I enjoy making love for extended periods with lots of foreplay. I enjoy cuddling and stroking my partner, letting her know that she is adored, loved and protected.
I recognize that many women look for the qualities I provide in a mate, but would still like to enjoy other men with different bodies and sexual styles. After our relationship is established, it would be my expectation that my partner would be free to take lovers, male or female, as she desires while I remain monogamous to her. I will not only be tolerant, but supportive of her extra relations -- helping arrange her encounters and ensuring that she is always safe -- even if it means less sex for me. Her pleasure is my pleasure.
I'm fairly skilled in the kitchen and enjoy preparing meals at home when time permits.
An ideal evening for me might be taking my lady out for dinner and entertainment, then returning home, pouring a couple glasses of wine, and treating her to a nice, slow shoulder and neck massage, and gently planting kisses all over her body. She falls asleep in my arms, relaxed, knowing that there is no pressure to have sex with me, and anticipating a session with her lover the following evening.
Another nice scenario might be helping my lady prepare for a session with her lover - selecting sexy lingerie and sharing in the anticipation. Then, afterward, massaging her tired body and telling her how much I enjoy seeing her satisfied.
And one more: Joining my lady for an intimate session the night after she enjoyed a lover, kissing her all over and bringing her to climax after climax with my mouth and hands while she tells me about her previous night's experience, and how satisfying it was. She thanks me for supporting her freedom and I assure her of my support.
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I realize there are many men on here seeking a fantasy that is incompatible with reality, or who flake when the opportunity to pursue what they say they want presents itself. The same can be said for many women on this site as well. I assure you that I am genuine, and I seek the same.
I am located in the Phoenix area. I am unable to relocate for a few years due to my work, but if things work out and you are willing to relocate here I will provide a nice home for us. I am willing to travel to meet you, and will never do anything to make you feel unsafe or pressured.
I am fairly successful, but my means are not limitless. I enjoy taking care of the woman I love, but I will not be taken advantage of.
If you're not able to meet in person but would enjoy conversing, please feel free to contact me.
If you're interested, send me a message or favorite me and I'll message you.
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