DerangedPleasure

Male Dominant, 40

Female Dominant, 18, Bloodstained Nite

Male Dominant, 30, New York

This just something fun I decided to write last night... It's a little bit funny, it's a little bit sad, but the dreams in which I'm screaming are the best I've ever had. That is what the lyrics should have been. That is how I sing the song when I hear it. I am a masochist. I like pain. No, I love it. There is nothing better than the heal of a woman's latex boot digging into your crotch. I know, I know, it sounds sick. And maybe I am sick. But chances are you've never tried it. Chances are you are what e in the masochist circles call vanilla. You arent dark and mysterious like chocolate. You dont have any fun extras like the marshmellows and almonds in rockey road. And you most certainly dont have the sweetness of Sherbert. You are just vanilla. You go to work, you come home and kiss your spouse. You play with your kids and put them to sleep. You snuggle up with your mate to watch another regurgitated cop drama, almost exactly like the one you watched the night before. Then later in the evening you and your significant other make love. Most likely in the missionary position, and if you're feeling frisky you might wear something sexy. A short ten minutes later you are both done and fast asleep, ready to do it all over again tomorrow. You are vanilla. If you arent vanilla, then I congradulate you on living your life outside of the norm. I on the other hnd have a dark chocolatey obsession with pain. My rockey road extras are the rustic smell of leather bound around my wrists and ankles, and bitter rubbery taste of a gag in my mouth. And of corse I look so Sherbert sweet in my girlfriend's silk pink panties. I my friends most certainly am not Vanilla.

I begged for mercy and forgiveness for the first time last night. I mean I've done things like that via text before, but when the person can hear you its a totally different experience. It was kind of a rush actually. See, I am a very emotionally closed off person. I dont share how I feel with anyone I dont trust or know that well. So to do something like this with someone I've never even met face to face was quite scary, but in the end I have to say it was fun. I dont know why, but it feels good knowing that a woman has the emotional power to make me feel so guilty and terrible over one little orgasm.

I've been doing a lot of reading, observing and watching around here for the past few days and I think I finally understand something that has been perplexing me for a while now. I've been to various kink sites like this one and I always imagined how easy it would be to find a dominant female in my area. But after reading the forum here and going through dozens of profiles I realize that these sites aren?t soley meant for meeting sexy singles. Although deep connections are sometimes formed it doesn?t happen as often as I would think. I have a feeling that the most common misconception of collarme is that it is a dating site, when in reality it is nothing more than a community. It's a place for friends to share their experiences and learn new things. It?s a place where you can meet new unique people and keep in touch with those you may care about. It feels good when you realize you're starting to get it. :p

Okay, is it just me or are alot of people on this site missing the point of BDSM? Dont get me wrong I'm not claiming to be an expert BDSM is a very complex subject, physically and psychologically. But half the female "doms" on here are demanding financail tribute and claim that all they want is to humiliate and ignore you... It's almost as if they like dealing the abuse to hopefull submissives but then refuse the responsibility of the after care. Isn't the whole point to build trust and respect, to show your beloved subby whos boss but at the same time let him know you're truely greatful for his undying devotion? ...I dont know, maybe I'm just crazy. If you have any opinions that may help enlighten me on this subject send me a message. :)

Male Switch, 40, Boston, Massachusetts

Male Submissive, 35, Orlando, Florida

Male Dominant, 21, Houston, Alabama

Male Submissive, 50, Quebec

Male Dominant, 67, Minneapolis, Minnesota

Male Dominant, 32, Boston, Massachusetts

Male Submissive, 18, Toronto

Male Dominant, 62, København

Male Dominant, 37, Cologne

Male Dominant, 57, London

Male Switch, 21, rocklin, California

Male Dominant, 53, DE Germany NRW