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Dominant Couple, 46, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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Male Submissive, 33
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Male Submissive, 27, upper darby, Pennsylvania
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About Delcosangel
I am owned and have been with my Master over 20 years. Open to conversation about various topics like hobbies, music, books, bdsm/ general discussion regarding kinks or fetishes (though have no interest in any form of erotic style chat,) friendship that can be platonic or may develop into play partners. Yes, He knows I am on here and has no problem with the info I have up. No, I do not have to ask him to speak with you, he is cool with it and trust me to tell you where to go if needed.
I recently moved to Monroe County, PA but will still be visiting Delaware County, PA to see family and friends so is possible to meet others not far off the route.
I have no problem with the exchange of a g-rated face pic with you via a vanilla platform after we have had at least two back-and-forth conversations that aren’t broken up over days and days of messages. The point of it is to get an idea if we are open to the same situation, kinks in common, agreeable limits, etc since what we look like won’t matter if that doesn’t line up or if just platonic friendship after get to a decent level of trust.
Quick points of info...
- I am open to platonic friendships regardless of gender ID, religion, ethnicity, sexual orientation, disabilities, etc as long as you harm none.
- I have no problem with friendships with Male bottoms or Female Tops but will not go beyond platonic.
- I have a quirky and sometimes sarcastic sense of humor.
- I am open to meeting those local to where I live but willing to meet up to about an hour away or as mentioned along the route take between Delco and Monroe County. (Yes my Master is part of any meet at least first time with a male)
- I am open to IN PERSON scene with a friend who becomes a play partner. Meaning if we start forming a friendship and if things click can progress.
- I am not looking for a new Master/Owner online or in person. The man I call Master is the owner of my heart and soul and that isn’t going to change.
- I am not looking for any form of erotic chat, to hear you rehash your sexcapades, cam or sending or receiving naked/sexy pics, gifs, videos, etc. Trying to push your kinks on me without my consent or calling me Mistress, Ma’am, Babygirl, dear, hunny, etc will dry me up like the Atacama Desert.
Possible Friendships to evolve to include scenes - Male Dom, Female sub or slave or combo of those.
- I am submissive during a scene with a male Dom who is a friend.
- I am bisexual and agreeable to scene with another female sub/slave.
- I am definitely not a match if you claim safe words, vetting and being safe are lame.
- I am a masochist (if you do not know what that is, we are not likely to be compatible) and I would not be a match for a “sensualist/tantric” Dom who is not sadistic as well.
- I prefer play partners to be at the least 25 or older for women and no more than 10 years younger than me for men.
- First meet is neutral with my Master and me since he makes final decision. If you have a sub and she is also interested will not scene before meeting her as well.
- If you are married (as in not legally divorced,) have any type of partner, that person is on board.
- Non-smoker/vaper of any substance or chewers.
- Does not drink in excess and does not drink before or during play.
- Does not use drugs - illegal or illegally used.
- Practices safe sex, NO CONDOM, NO FUCKING.
- All limits whether ours or yours are non-negotiable and will be respected.
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If you are interested in a friendship that is more than platonic, these are things that are a barrier to that...
-?If you are looking for an unattached woman or a woman who identifies as a bottom to own in person or online,
- If you are a man looking for an owned sub for cheating, playing with you and the mystical sub you own or poly with my Master and I but have no sub also going?to be involved,
- If you are a woman under 30 or a man more than 10 years younger than me,
- If you are looking for any type of sex chat, nasty chat, lewd chat (whatever you call it,) etc or cam/video,
- If you are looking to exchange, send or be sent naked pics, pics of sexual positions/activities, or any type videos,
- If you are looking to relive your sexcapades, things done before you could sign a legal document or get off telling me your fantasy,
- If you are looking for just sex without any form of BDSM, a random hook up?or a romantic relationship/companionship with or without BDSM included,
- If you are looking for someone who travels more than an hour or so away,
- If you smoke/vape, have smoked/vaped any type of substance or chew,
- If you are an alcoholic, drink before or during a scene,
- If you take any type of "recreational" drugs or ones that are not prescribed for you,?
- If you are a submissive man, switch man mainly look to bottom, or a Dominant woman |
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Winner of the day 7/24.26 (hat tip to a nice person who enjoys these, here is bonus #1)
Me: so do you have any kinks that are non negotiable? you require they are part of playing or not part of play? If so what ones?
Dom: I need anal , spanking , leash and collar.? They are starters and must have
Me: oh. looks like we aren't going to be on the same page
Dom: Anal I can let it lose but obedience is must too. But we can talk thru it
? ? ?.... Leash I said as it was must for my slave /sub (no he did not specify was only for his slave/sub)
Amazing how he backtracks that oh these can be discussed when the question literally was what is non negotiable, either he requires is part of play or not part of play...
Bonus #2 from same Dom
Dom: I don?t like booty call thought either. I wanted to be friends with couple and see where it can lead.
Me: He has no issue with platonic friendship with guys in the lifestyle
Dom: I want beyond that
If that happens
Me: He has no interest in men
Dom: She can be his but she can be given to me to enjoy her.
Nor do I have interest men ;)
I enjoy women just fine
Me: you said you wanted beyond platonic friendship with him
Dom: I meant I want to enjoy his slave with him and alone
And be good friend with all involved
But now the next day he says he is looking for a sub, he is not interested in any vanilla relationship. All that after I reiterated I would only be submissive during a scene with him if we got to that point. He acts like he wants to be a co - Dom to which my profile says I have no interest in another Master. Possible play partner with a Male Dom during a scene is fine and I will of course be submissive at that time and always give general respect to a Dom in public setting as possible but not the same obedience as my Master gets.
UPDATE: Now he wants a triade with my Master and me. So how are you planning to keep that a secret from your wife?????
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Winner of the day 7/23/26
Dom - "Distance is not my problem because i can fly anywhere easily , what?s most important for me is the true willingness and commitment to find that seruous special one for a long term , if you desire to build that with me then we can make it work"
Again the first paragraph in my profile is clear that I AM OWNED. WTH is wrong with these supposed Doms? DId they skip reading comprehension?
Winner of the day 5/19/26
Dom: You have a Master already ?
Me: ummm have had a Master going on 20 plus years
it's the first line of my profile
Dom: So what exactly are you looking for then ? I?m looking for long term relationship?
Me: like my profile says I am open to conversation, friendships that can be platonic or lead to play partners
? ? ? that has always been the info in my profile?
? ? ? Sorry if there was some confusion (Mind you, he was told in 5.24.18, again 5.9.26, during this chat 5.18.26 and the info has been in my profile since joined this site when it was collarme and have been owned since 2003)
Dom: Indeed I must?ve missed it ?I?m not looking for |
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FOR THE DOMINANTS, DADDIES/MOMMIES. SADISTS, TOPS, ETC
I hope that if you are contacting me, you know how to act like a mature, respectful, confident, dominant person, not an inmature, rude wanker. I am not your sub, good girl, babygirl, doll, slut, bitch, cumdump, etc.
My Master and I have been together since 2003 and I am?not?looking for a new Master/Owner. I am?open to potential?to develop a friendship that can evolve into play partners if we are compatible.
I?DO NOT?have any interest in a Dominant woman as a play partner, only potential is platonic friendship.
I am not on here to help you rub one out via telling you detailed exploits of my kinks, sex chat or sending you sexy/naked pics or videos. I also do not want to hear detailed info of your exploits, what you think you are going to do to me/another or sexy/naked pics or videos sent to me.?
Now, I am willing to possibly exchange g-rated face pic for g-rated face pic, on a nilla platform after a couple conversations that show we are on the same page. Meaning looking for same situation, interested in same kinks and have compatible limits and expectations (not prolong choppy conversation that takes weeks to even figure out this info)?
IF THIS IS A PROBLEM DO NOT CONTACT ME. IT IS THAT FREAKING SIMPLE. |
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For the subs, slaves, maso, babies, bottoms, etc
I hope if you are contacting me, you know how to be a mature adult who respects boundaries and consent. If you are able to do this then there are very few things that would hinder a possible friendship.?
I am open to a friendship or a friendship developing into play with women who are slaves, subs, bottoms and masochist. There is potential for becoming part of the dynamic but that is not a requirement.
If you are a baby type, sugarbaby or male bottom,?I am ONLY open to?PLATONIC?friendship. NOTHING KINKY OR SEXUAL
I am not a Dominant so do not call me Ma'am, Mistress, Goddess, etc it is just rude and my profile is clear that I am married so obviously not a Miss. Simply use my profile name or just ask for my name.
I have no desire to be sent sexy/naked pics of you or others whether male or female, doing this is automatic no for anything. I am not going to sex chat with you or want to hear you give a detailed description of your sexcapades. A g rated face pic for g rated face pic can be possible on a nilla platform after figure out where things might go.
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IF THIS IS A PROBLEM DO NOT CONTACT ME. IT IS THAT FREAKING SIMPLE
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An "alpha" male told me that because I wasn’t interested in fucking him, I am afraid of power. Honestly, it’s more like I’m not interested in becoming a plotline for Criminal Minds. When a man calls you by names that aren’t yours after you’ve already told him your real name, ignores repeated statements that you don’t do photoshoots, insists you’re on the same kink list (whatever that even is) despite having incompatible kinks, and tells you he loves every part of you from your chin to your feet—without having any idea what you look like—that’s not a safe “Dom” to scene with. That’s a red flag.
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CHATTING ONLINE
I have no issue with online bdsm, sex chatting or cam, however, I am NOT interested in doing them. For me, these things do not excite me, get me horny, etc and I am clear that I only play with a friend/play partner offline and in person. There is also no reason to get mad and be rude about it since not everyone is into the same thing and an adult should be able to respect that.
Now, I do enjoy the back and forth banter and teasing leading up to a scene with a friend/play partner.
If I ask you what your kinks are, that means just asking you to let me know you're for example into bondage, flogging, etc not a fantasy of what you think you are doing to me or your imaginary partner. |
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