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Male Dominant, 46, Hazel Park, Michigan
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About Delaminate

I don't understand those "dominants" who feel that pictures of sometimes disturbing violence solidify their claims of authority and legitimacy. I am of the belief that the essence of a good D/s relationship is much more subtle in nature. Pain and pleasure can indeed coexist delightfully but they are in essence manifestations of the willing transference of power and/or control.

I so like the clarity and freedom that such a transference provides. It makes me smile and hum.

Having said that, understand that I have neither need nor desire (let alone time) to control every aspect of another person's life. I respect intelligence and need it in a partner. Intelligent people generally prefer to function on their own in day to day situations. What happens behind closed doors (or selectively opened doors) is another matter.

I'm not entirely sure what I'm looking for here. A connection/friendship with another would be good. A more involved relationship over time would be better.

I am intensely... I mean intensely, private.

There you have it.
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