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degon

I am a 44-year-old married man who has a vanilla wife. Due to personal circumstances I need a young, discreet, pet. I am out going, funny and easy going, for a Dom. With deep and sometimes dark passions. Are you willing to wear my leash as I lead you into blissful hell?

I am NOT seeking male subs!!
How ever, wimp husbands will be cuckolded before their own eyes. Bring me your wife and I shall tame her as you watch weak and helpless.
But, girls who are you? A young girl between 18-25 in good health with strong purpose and direction, not a simpering wallflower. NO BRATS no BBW's. You are seeking a Seeking Dark Master as well as father figure (yes daddy’s girl). You have a Wide range of interests, are intelligent demure and yielding. Limits to be discussed. You must be willing to live through me but not for me. You will be my world, you will be loved cherished and treasured. Your gift will honored, my needs harsh.

When I'm not writing, I'm a planetarian/teacher/magician/ghost hunter/tarot reader/Renaissance Faire participant/Vampire

Dominant Poet

by Degon

Domination is not in a whip

It doesn't wear leather

any fool can feign arrogance

any ass can command

you do not kneel because I command

you kneel because you must

your submission is your imperative

your love

your gift

only the strongest hand is gentle

enough to cup

the frailest flower

a heavy fist will crush its life

weaken its spirit

break its soul

anger is a scared mans shield

fear his weapon

take my hand pet

allow your strength to feed us

my will open you

your surrender free us

in binds of ecstasy

weep in joy

cry in release

shudder in sweet

waves

of passions tears

its searing heat

I hunger for your whispered gasp

trembling lips

and from your knees reach out

and touch

heaven

Essay Questions

Why are you here? (On or on Earth, or both)

My vanilla spouse of many years is struck ill and unable to function sexually. This is a source for a discreet intelligent play partner who would in her own right be very loved and very cherished. My role on this earth is to grow for myself and others.

Briefly describe your personality -- what makes you tick? What should people know about you?

God if I knew that I would be more successful. I am easy going, yet dark. Intense has been said of me. When I commit no matter for how long it is with 100% focus. You will be my world. My breath and my soul.

What's your ambition? What do you hope to achieve in your life?

Bliss, joy rapture and oneness with Jah, Buddha or who ever it is out there. To connect through sensual experiences with the universe. To blend passion, pain and pleasure into a unique event and total emersive experience for me and my partner(s)

Describe your most memorable scene.

Each one is unique and each person is special I cannot diminish my life or theirs like this.

Describe your sexiest outfit, and/or how you look when dressed up in general.

I have a casual classy dark look. I am into black but not Goth. Usually very casual jeans etc. But I can dress to the hilt and be very classic.

What does a collar signify for you? How many times have you given/received a collar?

I have given two collars, it is a symbol of trust ownership and commitment. Each one was a careful gift and each gift of submission was taken with spiritual reverence. The events of life separated us. I have a void that aches to fill and be filled.

What are your pet peeves? What really ticks you off? And how do you react when you're angry?

Inability to commit or be honest. DON"T toy with me. If my situation excites or intrigues you give to me what I will give to you 100%
You want cyber games move on. If you can not fit your life with me in my needs then stop....don't waste my time and emotions or yours. Not into BBW's.
I get quiet intense and focused. I check my anger and vent it appropriately. I will never raise my hand in anger. If I get quiet, the storm is already brewing do NOT poke the dragon. While age play is a great turn on as well as implied daddy daughter incest...I do NOT suffer BRATS.

What are your 'deal breakers'? (turn offs etc - IE smoking, blue hair, braces, leprosy)

No Smoking, no one over 30, petite a must no one over 120.

I want a lady, you may be as depraved sexually as a third world whore willing to take every limit BUT you will NOT swear like a sailor, belch like a trucker or be ill mannered and ignorant (Hell you can even be smarter then I, I am not threatened) You will NOT be disrespectful. Class and style. Coy, shy untouched (even if only in theory) You will be made to swear at my delight, but you will be conditioned to feel a guilty pleasure when those dirty words pass your lips.

Anything else you'd like to add?

I hope your limits are fluid, and you are malleable like tempered steel. You are strong not a door mat. Deferring but confident. red hair a plus, catholic girls a bonus. Timid but never weak. Do you dare enter Hell at my heel? Pulling fearfully on your leash? The descent ends in the safety of my arms and the warmth of my heart. Pagans, Vampires and Witches welcome.

Who I am

Orientation: Heterosexual only

Education: 2 Year degree

Work: Full Time

Religion: I practice a private spirituality

Height: 6 Feet, 2 inches (187 cm)

Weight: 200-219lbs (91-99kg)

Eyes: Technicolor/Mixed

I consider myself to be: Attractive

Hair color: Light Brown

Hair Length: Medium

Body hair: Pretty average

Facial Hair Goatee

Pubic hair: Unshaved; Normal

Cock size (men): 8 inches

I am at least functional in: English

What I'm looking for

I prefer my partner(s) to be: A little shorter than me

I want to meet someone: A lot lighter than myself

I prefer my partner(s) to be: Younger than me

I'm looking for: E-mail friendships Hot E-mail Real life friends Real life encounters A real life lover A serious relationship

When it comes to sex or intimacy: I insist on complete control !

My current status is: Married but available

Somebody's appearance: counts, but I look at the whole package

Relationships should be: Monogamous, but with room for play

When it comes to couples: I'm solo and not interested in meeting couples

I'd be willing to relocate: Absolutely not

What I like

When it comes to pets: I'm a dog person

My clothing preferences: Jeans / T-shirtProfessional attire

For entertainment, I like: A quiet restaurantTheater / Opera / SymphonyStaying HomeBondage, Bondage, Bondage

Favorite Foods: AmericanChineseMexicanItalian

I'm allergic to: PollenSmoke

Alcohol Consumption: I drink on rare occasions

Smoking (tobacco): I never smoke; smoking bothers me

Hobbies: Art (viewing) Computers Movies (viewing) Television (watching) Writing

Music Preference: Classical Country Industrial Metal Reggae Techno R&B Motown 50's or 60's rock Jazz

I am a: Don't care

At parties, I am: Somewhat social and talkative

Sex and BDSM

I'm into Bondage: More often than not

My BDSM experience level: I've been playing for years

S & M: Whip me, beat me to a pulp and pierce me, please !

Disabilities: I have no disabilities

Health issues: I have health issues that don't affect play

Group Sex: I could get in to that !

Regarding Anal Sex: I would have to be the giver

Anal Sex: Is enjoyable to me

When scening, I like: Private scenes at homeDiscreet play in publicSmall play parties

4/16/2006 2:36:09 PM
Observations by a frustrated Dom. My understanding is this site was set up for single, or unattached subs and masters to find each other. And yet it also seems to be filled with tons of owned subs, some looking for sisters most just saying "Aren't I perfect? Too bad loser I'm owned."
It would be great if the site was set up to weed out those who are NOT looking from those who are. Also what in the hell is Bi but I don't men? WTF Do you think BI means??!! It's hard enough to find folks serious about this life style esp if one seeks real world contact. I used to seek subs only in Pa, now I am going through the arduous task of weeding subs from the whole damned country.
I sympathize with female subs who attract stalkers and men who are conveniently Dom but will switch just to get laid. Makes it harder for the real deal.
So, I am going to continue my search here and keep banging my head against the wall. Just like gold and diamonds, you have to sift through a ton of dirt to get to real treasure. Oh to that gem I'll finally find when I m through winnowing the chaff from the wheat. She will know what it means to be truly treasured and cared for....once I am done violating her flesh after such a long tedious search....be afraid, be excitedly afraid.
lilme1
 
 Age: 29
 Kensas, New York