As an experienced individual, I know what I am and I know my strengths and weaknesses. Nonetheless the more I know the more I realise I don't know, and the more I experience I realise there are lots more experiences to savour (or endure as the case may be).

I perhaps should have made choices along the way that would have allowed otherwise, but I now don't see myself as a major player in a lifestyle relationship. I see myself as an appendage, an amusing add-on for a dominant female, merely one of her many symbols of power and hopefully a practical, reliable servant, separated by distance but "on-tap" when her needs or moods dictate.

I'm a service orientated submissive. I do what it says on the tin. My moods or inconvenient timing are secondary to the command being fulfilled. The dynamic is maintained. The next time I am fortunate and she turns her attention to me it will mean so much more.

Age 56.

6' 1" and 227lbs (will and can lose weight with suitable incentive.

Black hair, hazel eyes.

A professional with my own business. I think my yahoo address might give a clue as to my profession and business.

I was married until 1991 when I was divorced and then married again in 2001. Both marriages were or are vanilla.