DeesseMere

MENTAL STIMULATION

If my mind, personality, behaviour, spark, is not enough to induce your submission then we will likely not be suited.

Have a curious mind, be educated, articulate, passionate about some things, relatively cultured, and able to philosophise for times when my mind needs stimulation. If I win a battle of the wits, and your mind impresses me, then I may want to have my way with you. You could be taken from feeling intellectually stimulated to sexually submissive relatively quickly.

PRACTICAL HELP

Have some of the following skills with an open minded attitude to training/improvement:

Indoor and Outdoor house work

Cuisine (at least a few refined good dishes)

Car detailing

IT/admin (connectivity between devices, accounting software or website/booking systems, sorting digital files, tax/finances record keeping)

DAILY LIVING AND LIVING ARRANGEMENTS

Be kind, thoughtful, physically affectionate, possess a smart (not crude) sense of humour and be socially engaging for times when I need to have you on my arm in public

I live in Geelong on my own, and it will stay this way. I will see you on a part time basis depending on how much I enjoy your company.  I have a spare bedroom you will sleep in if you stay, other than during the times I want you in my room with me.

If you do not live locally, be able to drive to me for an evening, or half a day at a time as a minimum, 1-2 times a week minimum. I don’t do remote/long distance.

INTERESTS

Camping, finding nice swimming spots, my dogs, road trips

Good food, coffee, drink of choice gin and tonic (no beer)

Intelligent TV/film dramas (not into sport unless it’s soccer, animation or bad comedy)

Jigsaws, escape rooms, games nights, art, plants, touch therapy and massage.

I don’t smoke or do drugs. I’d prefer you didn’t either.

Instant turn offs for me (unless you’re just a simple fuck) would be: overt racism, extreme political or religious views, a low emotional or intellectual IQ.

WHAT I’M AFTER IN TERMS OF POWER DYNAMIC

Coming over by arrangement literally just to fuck me from behind till one of us comes (ideally me) and then leave, no conversation or social interaction required. Quick and dirty. No further relationship dynamics.

Overpower me physically by your uncontrollable desperation for sexual release, and have me relent to the pressure of your animalistic needs.  I like showing you how weak you are to be overpowered by such strong hormonal needs, so in other words, while you fuck me roughly or with a light beating and obtain your gratification through force I’m still in control of your mind, and will make you feel pathetic for it afterwards, not dominant.  It can also turn me on to let you get away with being rough with me especially if it is a sign that my little boy is growing up to be a strong man.

Be a little boy for mummy. Snuggle naked up against me in bed and show me how much you love and need me and want to make mummy happy. Play with toys before being punished and be made to face into the corner and wait until I slowly allow you to show me how sorry you are for being a bad boy. Sit by my side on the floor while I feed you food from my fingers. Worship mummy.

In terms of an ongoing relationship dynamic, I have had experience being submissive a long time ago but now prefer to dominate in terms of day to day living, decision making, and control.

I can use canes, collars, chains, chastity devices but they do bore me on their own.  It’s your mind I want to control. So don’t expect a whole lot of kinky play unless it serves me directly. I obviously desire to dominate more than your cock. I want your heart on a platter.

If we begin a significant arrangement, I will want to know your location at all times, and will expect earnest responses to messages.

I want you to feel both owned and controlled by me, but also protective towards me and for these feelings to progressively grow.

I do not get enjoyment out of men who want or seek to be sissified.  Even for mummys boys.  The only time that may appeal is if you like being a manly man and desperately do not want that.

SENSUAL TOUCH

Be willing to learn how to provide meticulous massages.

Be a physically affectionate person, like to stroke, kiss, touch, hug.

Enjoy/accept larger women (tall, strong, big breasts, and a tummy that I would prefer not to have) a motherly figure if that helps…