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Male Submissive, 36, Bologna
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Male Dominant, 30, Austin, Texas
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Male Dominant, 58, Alberta, Calgary
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About deepspellbinder
I am 6'1", lean, with a powerful, centered, presence.
A good dominant is a steward of his submissive's secrets and desires and he acts decisively on his own desires. He unlocks them, he cultivates them, he realizes them. This is what interests me in BDSM. If you want someone to mess up your self image or cause lasting physical damage, look elsewhere. For me, D/s is about trust, respect, and exploring one's innermost reaches--heart-thumping, breath-stealing, forbidden fruit.
A good Dominant is also grounded. This lets his submissive go into subspace and know that she can count on him to take care of the rest. My grounding is rock-solid.
When exploring my darker side, I started off with role-play, bondage-sex, and erotic hypnosis. As I continued my trek into BDSM, I began exploring many forms of sensation play, from mild to wild. I'm proficient in the use of most impact devices, e-stim, and various forced-orgasm techniques, comfortable with some medical play and cupping. I started hypnotizing my friends at age 12, so while I am still exploring lots of things, I am hardly a newbie. I can be your Master, your Daddy, your doctor, your teacher, your priest, or your hypnotic spellweaver--but be careful, you might like it. What is your kink? I will discover it.
If a submissive needs physical discipline, I can administer it, and with particularly saucy brats I must admit I enjoy delivering a sound spanking.
I have the physical size and stamina to be as rough as you want, IF that's what you want, but I am intuitive enough to know when it's time for a gentle hand.
So what is this "I can be rough, I can be gentle" stuff? Am I wishy-washy/pussy/service-top? I know what I want. I know how to get it. I am interested in the deep connection that comes with good power exchange. I'm not attached to one strategy for getting that energetic connection. I'll use whatever strategy or tool I need to get through your barriers, to find the real, sacred part of you. I've learned that the chemistry was unique with each relationship I've had. Each connection takes a different form and expresses itself with different kinks.
On the subject of sacred sexuality, I am familiar with what Americans call Tantra, a subset of sacred sexual practice, which is in turn a subset of spiritual practice in general.
By now you may have guessed that I am intelligent, articulate, and intense. I also have a good sense of humor and I'm not afraid to laugh at myself (or you for that matter... :-) )
I am a real person, if I agree to meet you I will be there, no headgames. If you want an offer to collar over email, never having met, seek elsewhere. I would need an exceptional connection to be up for 24/7 TPE... it is a serious commitment and I'd only consider it in very special circumstances. Also, what you see is what you get; I'm not 5 feet tall 400lb with no teeth, 60 years old with a hairy back and no hygiene trying to pass myself off as something else. At this point I'm single. Not married, not cheating.
I'm here for naughty, kinky fun, to master myself more perfectly, and to assist a sub's exploration of her deeper secrets and turnons (or at least to have mindblowing sex), not to beat up on fragile people. If someone with a deep enough mind and spirit wanted a long-term relationship, I would be open to it, but I'm not holding my breath here. Keep in mind that LTR has a much higher standard of compatibility than a playmate.
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