deepdesires3252

Hello to all prospective Mistresses,

I have been interested in the lifestyle but have learned a lot through research and talking with others in the lifestyle thus I have a pretty good idea of what I would like to have as far a D/s relationship. I am seeking a Mistress that I can have a LTR with and who is comfortable with her role in the relationship and what it means to have a persons gift of submission. I would like someone who enjoys the lifestyle but can also lead a vanilla life around the public, family and non lifestyle friends. I am seeking a sensual Domme who has a little sadistic streak in her and knows what she wants as well. Being new to the lifestyle I have not found what my limits are totally yet but have a few that I know of, and would be considered hard limits, they are: Scat, Children, Drugs, and Animals.

I am not seeking a relationship where I am a slave and have no rights or input into our lives but I do understand that serving a superior woman does limit my input. I am not seeking to be a financial sub or slave. I have received too many messages looking to drain my bank account which is crap. A D/s relationship would probably take longer to develop than a vanilla relationship as that the level of trust has to be much greater thus I will not become your sub in just two messages. I do expect to verify that you are real by phone and eventual personal meeting. One thing that is upsetting is that when I have replied to different people they don’t even have the respect to give me a message back stating that they are not interested they just ignore me after I have written more than a two line message, I find that very rude and especially when the demand more then a two line message.

I hope that I am not coming off to strong but I am tired of the games and players and would like to meet some one who is genuine. I have started to become involved in the local community to help me learn and grow.