DeeDom

What a delicious evening that was!!!

My boy took me for a meal at my favourite restaurant, it's been a busy week for me balancing work and home life and thrashing a sub here and whipping a sub there ... but here we are FRIDAY and the weekend is here.

So off I went tonight to meet my little sub, casual and sexy was the look for tonight black silk blouse, red leather skirt black Wolford silk stockings and of course red bottomed shoes.

We arrange to meet outside.

My taxi pulls up to the restaurant, I wind down the window and gesture him over with my well-manicured finger, he struts over to the car like a proud little peacock, he opens the door and pays the fare and takes my hand and leads me from the car.

He breathes in my beauty, he is struck dumb, he takes a sharp intake of breath.

“Mistress you are amazing”

“Thank you my dear, did you get the table I like”

“Yes Mistress, I had to bribe the Maitre’d but it is done”

“Good boy” I run my hand through his hair. “Let’s get inside”

We are shown to our table, a prime spot in a secluded corner, I order our drinks a champagne cocktail for me and Tanqueray Ten and tonic for him.

Tonight we do the vanilla thing and blend in with the “normies” albeit with an edge, so I run my feet up his legs under the table, and lick my lips slowly whilst looking into his big brown eyes, and pressing my remote every now and then to keep him on his toes, it’s beautiful and cruel and I LOVE it! I mean he is wearing wireless nipple clamps and is locked up safe and sound.

Bon appetite x

Happy Valentines Day to you all

losers, wishers, low-lives, slaves, specimens, worthless items, bitches, toys et al

May you be loved (in the appropriate manner) today.

Be grateful my dears x

A wrap dress, Silk stockings and Stilettos I do love being me! 

VALENTINES DAY IS VAST APPROACHING ... CHOCOLATES & FLOWERS OR LEATHER & WHIPS ?

I arrive early and I'm seated in a large winged back chair facing the fireplace, I must admit the St James's is one of my "preferred" meeting places.

I have arrived extra early so that I could enjoy afternoon tea, before my little minion arrives.

I inspect my freshly manicured nails, they do look amazing, even better when I scratch them into some white flesh later, the image makes me smile.

Today I am dressed in a black tailored two piece trouser suit, with a crisp white shirt and of course ... 5" heels.

I finish my tea, and pick up The Times from the occasional table beside me, and read the article on the front page, "Labour spending spree to cost £25bn" I sigh and flip the page, whilst reading I suddenly feel that someone is staring at me ...

Slowly, deliberately I uncross my legs and lean forward with my hands on my knees and look directly into the eyes of a worm in a pinstripe suit sitting across from me in a couch, I watch as his cheeks turn redder and redder, embarrassed that he has been caught, he darts his eyes away from mine searching desperately for someone else to gaze upon, and returns to his laptop I laugh out loud and continue to read.

The grandfather clock chimes at 3 O'clock, I look towards the door and sure enough here comes my bitch boy.

He walks towards me, I rise and he greets me as he has been taught.

"Greetings Mistress" He kisses me on both cheeks " I do hope that you have had a good day?"

 "It's been productive my dear"

"May I get you a drink Miss Dee"

"No, let`s get down to business, you may be seated"

"Thank you mistress" he never loses my gaze, his eyes wide and open for a command.

Our voices are hushed

"Did you do your homework this week boy?"

"Oh, Yes mistress, I cleaned the oven with a toothbrush as instructed, I cleaned all the windows inside & out with vinegar, and newspapers, I wiped the kitchen and bathroom floor with a cloth and cleaned the skirting with fresh lemon and soap, you shall be very pleased mistress"

"Oh will I?, do you now know what I consider pleasing boy?"

A look of fear crosses his face, he knows that he has committed the a cardinal sin NEVER ASSUME ANYTHING!

"I am very sorry mistress I did not mean to offend you"

I grabbed his jaw in my hands.

"Never assume you know me fool" he can feel my breathe in his face.

"Mistress, I am sorry mistress"

I look over and pinstripe suit is watching intently, I fix my stare on pinstripe and smile with my eyes directly at him, never letting go of my minions face.

He lowers his eyes to the ground and goes my to his computer screen.

I release my minions chin.

"Mistress I have brought something for you, Please may I give it to you?"

"What is it worm?"

He reaches inside his jacket & pulls out a red rectangular jewellery box 

"Is that it, boy"

"Yes Mistress"

"Well you know what you have to do"

From the seated position he drops to his knees at my feet, "Please Divine Mistress, accept my humble token from your lowly servant"

"Why?"

"Because I am not worthy, but I hope one day to be"

I smile ... his training is paying off

"Be seated", he returns back to his seat and hands me the box.

I open the box and inside laying in the black velvet lined cushioned box lies a white gold and ruby bracelet, I must admit that it is quite beautiful...

" Well, well, well you have done well my dear"

It's face breaks into a huge grin, eyes shining, looking at me longingly, lapping up every word I say.

I toy with my new trinket, I do so like quality jewellery, elegant and eye catching just like myself.

I turn to my boy, "I am pleased, kneel beside me my dear"

It falls to it's knees and shuffles closer to my feet.

I stroke it's head, it's thick locks running through my fingers, it moans ...

"You have done well boy, now Get my case my dear, it's time to retire I the room"

I stand and It reaches over to pick up my Mulberry case, all the while still on it's knees.

"you may stand boy"

It does as it is told, I turn to leave, and then stop, I look back at pinstripe whose eyes are filled with fear and yet ... longing, I know that look all too well.

"Come my dear, you can be of use to me"

It opens it's mouth to speak and says nothing, it's eyes widen with fear, body rigid.

I turn and walk away from the lounge area my minion following, I hear the clap of pinstripes laptop lid closing and it's footsteps falling in behind minion No.1, I walk towards the foyer and the elevator, we all enter the lift not a word is spoken.

I press number 4 and up we go, you can cut the air with a knife a mixture of excitement a fear lingers like a invisible cloud

2...3...4 the doors opens I exit and walk towards the room, here we are 412, I open the door and walk in the minions following.

I look around the room ...Ahh excellent, just as I requested the room could do with a clean.

What a lovely way to unwind after a hectic morning, now the humiliation begins.

Bow down bitches!

Be grateful

My year has started off very well today is January 28th and I've been busy so far, encountered a few wretched time-wasters, but they have/are being dealt with  (IP addresses are a wonderful thing.) MY TIME REALLY IS PRECIOUS BITCHES!

I had lunch with a legal prospect recently and it was telling me about it's work which was really very interesting, I suddenly had an out of body experience, where I could see myself standing over this boy, dressed in a black evening dress with sky high heels and my hair tied up in a bun, and my favourite whip in hand whilst this boy was dressed in apron and little else.

I directed it to the mop and bucket which is waiting for it , and then told it:-

"Boy !You Know Your Place, and You Know What to do"

and then it turns around to where the mop & bucket are placed, exposing it's bare arse " THWACK!"

It takes a sharp intake of breath, its body frozen rigid in fear.

I smile and return back to the conversation in hand, if only it knew how the cogs in my mind were spinning!

I then met another subby, As soon as I saw it I Immediately felt that it should be on it's knees, I envisioned collaring it & walking him on a lead & stopping to stroke his head from time to time, and then just to add some spice bending down to it so it's face meets mine and slapping the worthless specimen in its face and reminding it that he's a useless piece of shit and should be honoured that I have graced it with my precious time, it's at my feet ... Butt naked. Scared anxious

I Love it!

I sip my spritzer and smile to myself.

The greater the fear the better the sub!

*she winks*

I remove my coat and let it fall to the floor.

“down boy”

It falls to its knees

I stand my legs straggled over it, I can see that it wants to look at but is afraid.

I bend down and lift its chin with my finger, you may view greatness my dear.

Its eyes follow the curve of my legs, salivating at my thighs in my leather pants its eyes continue to travel to my breasts, bubbling out of a fitted black corset, it is fixated its eyes frozen.

“You are magnificent Mistress”

“Well you know what to do”

I watch as it nervously changes his clothes, once it has finished I command it to stand before me.

"Stand straight boy" 

It stands before me, in a leather thong.

"Close your eyes worm"

I walk around it as it's stand quivering in the hallway, every step my heels make against the hard floor it's body tenses, I come close to it and smell the back of its neck.

"I can smell your fear my dear"

It is now visible shaking and I love it!

"Open your eyes and follow me"

"Yes Mistress" like the pup in training it is, it follows me into the kitchen.

I stop and turn and look at it.

"Assume the position"

It falls to its knees, arms out-stretched, forehead to floor.

 I throw the cleaning cloth to the floor and point my leather booted toe to a spray bottle of flash and 2 cotton buds placed neatly on the floor near the bin.

“Wipe down the cupboards and make sure that you get in the corners, and clean the floor”

“Yes mistress”

I retire to the dining room and pour a glass of wine & read the paper.

Thirty minutes go by I walk into the kitchen, it has assumed the position and the floors and cupboards are gleaming.

“Now use this duster “ I throw the cloth in it’s face

 “... and dust the ornaments & then polish in the living room and vacuum”

It starts dusting the shelves, slowly carefully meticulously in a practiced methodical fashion left to right stroking away what little dust it can find.

From across the room I open my black case and take out my paddle, I stroke it on my face.

The smell of Italian leather is delicious to me. I stroke it up and down my thigh and groan is self pleasuring ecstasy.

From the corner of my eye I see it watching me, I can feel its excitement,  I slap the paddle against my thigh, It jumps as it hears the slap of the leather.

“Do your chores worm”

“Y...yes Mistress”

I walk over to it and I run my nails down its milky white back, I then stroke from his ankle to his bottom with the paddle... it tenses.

“Ha Ha Ha! You seem a little frightened worm”

“Just apprehensive Mistress, as I don’t know what you will do”

“Exactly as it should be!, Continue with your chores”

“Yes Mistress”

It continues.

I watch as it polishes and vacuums like the good little bitch that it is, when finished it assumes the position.

I inspect the chores.

“Well done worm, not bad”

It blushes at the acknowledgement of his handiwork, looking like a puppy that has just been patted.

“Thank you Mistress”

“Come here to me worm”

“Yes Mistress”

It stands

“Crawl fool! Get back on all fours”

It drops to the floor and crawls to my feet.

“I don’t want to see your ugly face worm, your arse looks better! Turn around”

It complies.

“That’s better”

I sit on the sofa and take my paddle and run it across its bare white ass

“You need to learn the rules my dear, but you’ll learn”

“Yes Mistress, teach me ... I beg of you”

“ Ahh you poor helpless shit, you need me don’t you”

It nods & sobs gently.

“Yes Mistress, I do ... I am so worthless ... help me”

“Come here my dear”

I pat my lap “rest your head my dear” and it turns around I take its face in my hands and place it on my cleavage.

“It’s Ok my dear, Goddess shall look after you, you’re a weak little worm, so as long as you do as you’re told, you shall be fine.”

It sobs quietly, its tears making my corset damp.

I start stroking it’s head

“Thank you Mistress, Thank you ... Thank you”

Still stroking its head

“Be grateful my dear, keep me pleased, and continue worship me ” I grab its hair and jerk its head upwards so it can see my face, looking deep into it’s eyes, and in a stern whispered voice

“But fuck with me and your pathetic life will not be worth shit!”

Experienced decorators & builders req.

Enter "Building" in the subject field. 

There he was, standing outside the tube station looking pathetic & scared.

I watched from a distance as he checked his watch, his eyes searching each woman that passes him by in the hope that she maybe the one ... I smile to myself he has no idea what's coming. 

I call  his number

"subby you look rather nervous"

A look of fright spreads across his face, he's turning his head from left-to-right, where is she? She's watching me...

I sing in a mocking voice "Ha Ha Ha! I'm not there subby,"

he shifts from his left foot to the right, poor thing he's so feeble.

"OK subby, did you purchase the items I requested?"

"Yes Mistress"

"Good, now eyes to floor" slowly I exit the car and walk towards the pathetic wimp.

I continue the conversation "Stand straight wimp, keep your eyes on the floor" 

he straightens his self and stares intently at the pavement.

"Good afternoon sub" I stand before him he is staring at my leather boots. I can smell his fear it's exhilarating to me.

"M..m..Mistress? Thank you for seeing me, thank you thank you so much mistress I'm not worthy thank you" He now seems even smaller than he was before, he is shrinking before my eyes.

"I lean close to him and whisper in his ear

"Look at me subby, feast Your eyes upon perfection"  He raises his eyes to mine .

"Goddess You are truly divine"

"Yes I know" I reply with the bored yawn

"Now follow me you have chores to attend to" he follows me as I walk towards my car.

"Do not sit on my seats, lay on the floor like a dog you are" he does as he's told and lies on the floor in the  car, we drive for 30 minutes and we arrive at our destination.

I tell it to get up open my door, it then hurriedly gets up off the floor and out of the car to open my door.
"subby, get my case from the boot"  

I open the front door, inside the house is dimly lit with candles in the hallway there is a faint smell of incense burning in the background.

"Now let me see you subby" He stands in front of me in his Boss suit and Todds shoes,tailored shirt & tie looking clean cut & smart, he nervously looks at the floor.

"We'll my dear, get changed into your correct attire, I want to play" I grab his tie and pull him towards me until he can feel my breath in his face 

" I am the boss of YOU bitch!" ...

Let the games begin...

Chauffeur required.

Session about to start ... Excited Piggies??? LOL

Those of you who have your password get ready, starting Skype and Team Viewer

... Let the games begin

I now feel that I want to build a fun D/s relationship with a sub, I tire of these one hit wonders it would be good to have a special pet that I can really mind fuck with Mwah Ha Ha

To answer what makes a good FinDomme

Firstly let me tell you that this is not meant to be a tell all or exhaustive tick list of requirements to be held by Mistresses, rather a question that was poised to me this evening by a wannabe slave, not one of mine I hasten to add but by one that has seen me on a few occasions dog (bitch) walking etc. 
It seems that some subs/slaves have a preconceived ideas of how a relationship of this type is.

So here is the idiots guide to knowing the basics .... 
The number one question asked:- Why do I need to tribute, easily answered:- Because you do! Now we've cleared that up,lets move on. 
The biggest and most important thing in any relationship is trust, no matter what type of Findom relationship it is trust is very important, Patience is also very important, the piggies that come to Goddesses like us, come for many reasons but the euphoric thrill they receive serving us financially is universal. 
As a FinDomme Goddess dictating/controlling aspects of my Pigs lives is erotic and fun for me, It tickles my fancy and can amuse me when I'm in bored. I care for all my pets, however as with any pet they do have to be trained to follow instructions and I do like to give my pets treats from time to time when I feel they have earned it. 
OK each of my piggies/swine's serve a purpose otherwise I would have very little need for them, a lucky few are multi-purpose (yes I know! surprising but true) 
Some have contact with me frequently, some infrequently, some need to be reprimanded more severely than others etc, etc. etc. bottom line is I treat each pig as a individual, but the one things that they all have in common is they all know I am the BE ALL AND END ALL of their tiny insignificant, inconsequential,nondescript, insipid.humdrum existence, to be fair any self respecting Mistress expects and receives the same, this is non negotiable. 

A lot has changed over the years some pigs approach a Goddess with a laundry list of things they like or fetishes they wish to have ... Now let me just clarify this up so that you can get a better idea of me! (although I feel that a lot of Mistresses may feel the same) 
YOUR FANTASIES MEAN FUCK ALL TO ME! I create fantasies and make nightmares come true!
A relationship is developed at a pace that the Goddess sets, not around what a piggie wants, You are here to serve her,not visa versa 
We laugh at your inadequacies and enjoy a coffee whilst discussing how pathetic and irrelevant you are. 

So it's not really what makes a good FinDomme but more, What makes a passable piggie

Dog walking in the park tonight ... I do like to treat my pets LMAO

Hello Minions,
Well I have been very busy ensuring and enjoying the attention from the little piggies that have come to me begging to be my pets, and those just begging for my attention LOL tributes continue to come through, KEEP THEM COMING!!!
I appreciate that you piggies enjoy the type of punishment that I administer, and enjoy the deprivation that I kindly allow from time to time, . .
But remember ...
You must keep this Goddess satisfied and if I feel that you need to be punished, then remember there is more than one way to skin a cat!
Those of you have felt my wrath know that Blackmailing and TV control and Lockout are just a few of the things that I like to do.

Look into my eyes and feel my breath on the back of your neck as I give you task after task to preform, feel the fear when I make you get down on your knees and crawl behind me.

This is your place
Be grateful!
Dee Dom

OK, as I have been approached by more than a few Mistresses/Dommes etc. I have compiled a list of Time-wasters (not exhaustive) inbox me if you wish to view, however I shall verify that you are indeed Commander.

In saying that there are some obedient subs here that keep me amused!

Stay slap happy