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Hmmm…who am I?
Simply stated, a work in progress.
I am a straight but not narrow, redheaded, BBW submissive (5’6”, 225 lbs, Size 18/20 US) with increasing switch/dominant tendencies, currently undergoing quite a bit of self-discovery and reinvention in these matters, as I am sure might be true of many of you reading this. My perspective in D/s is grounded in my life experience as a submissive, but I can no longer deny a growing desire within me to take a loving and devoted submissive man under my wing and explore my dominant side.
Ultimately, through the course of friendship and the fullness of time, I am seeking a male partner, 45 to ? years old, to devotedly and monogamously share a deeply devoted, intertwined D/s life, complete with all the trappings that accompany this wonderful lifestyle, and in whatever unique, complementary form they may take with that special partner.
While we all may have to function in the vanilla world, I feel D/s is something that is interwoven and permeating into all parts of one's life and into one’s person, and inherently is not something that can be turned on or off; therefore, I am interested in living it 24/7 with the right partner.
My interpretation of the term "24/7" entails living in a continual mindfulness of D/s protocol, ritual, service, care and devotion that, while at times during one's day-to-day affairs may be more outspoken, demonstrated, and physically manifested than at others, it is always, always, always the life force and momentum that drives and feeds both the Dominant and the submissive. In that sweet idyllic state, each seeks to act for the other person’s highest good.
While I presently live in the Black Hills of South Dakota, all Doris Day singing aside, I am not from here originally and do not envision myself staying here for the long term. But, for the right partner? Possibly. Would I relocate? Yes.
Some things that appeal to me:
Genuine, Deep Friendship Intelligent Conversation History The Industrial Revolution Science Being Restrained Art Deco Renaissance Men Collars and Shiny Buckles City Life Rural Life Books The Feel of Rope Films Calligraphy and Penmanship Vintage Things Good Coffee A Proper Cuppa Maxfield Parrish Corsets Travel The Color Black Kneeling Cooking Bootblacking Frank Sinatra Leather The Eclectic and Esoteric Ball Gags Classic Cars, Especially British Ones Browsing Bookshops, New and Old Stainless Steel Spanking, Especially Bare-Handed Handwritten Letters Steampunk Fashion Abandoned Urban Architecture Sterling Silver Museums, Any and All Woody Allen Films Writing, Primarily Prose Photography The Great Lakes Riding Trains The Sea Jeans and Black Leather Boots A Finger Under One’s Chin Red Hair Bubble Baths Lipstick English Accents Corsets and Seamed Stockings The Smell of Leather Arousal by Scent and Touch Reading the Sunday Paper Rockhounding
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