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Male Switch, 45, Raleigh, North Carolina
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Male Submissive, 21, Orlando, Florida
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About decouture
Hmmm…who am I?
Simply stated, a work in progress.
I am a straight but not narrow, redheaded, BBW submissive (5’6”, 225 lbs, Size 18/20 US) with increasing switch/dominant tendencies, currently undergoing quite a bit of self-discovery and reinvention in these matters, as I am sure might be true of many of you reading this. My perspective in D/s is grounded in my life experience as a submissive, but I can no longer deny a growing desire within me to take a loving and devoted submissive man under my wing and explore my dominant side.
Ultimately, through the course of friendship and the fullness of time, I am seeking a male partner, 45 to ? years old, to devotedly and monogamously share a deeply devoted, intertwined D/s life, complete with all the trappings that accompany this wonderful lifestyle, and in whatever unique, complementary form they may take with that special partner.
While we all may have to function in the vanilla world, I feel D/s is something that is interwoven and permeating into all parts of one's life and into one’s person, and inherently is not something that can be turned on or off; therefore, I am interested in living it 24/7 with the right partner.
My interpretation of the term "24/7" entails living in a continual mindfulness of D/s protocol, ritual, service, care and devotion that, while at times during one's day-to-day affairs may be more outspoken, demonstrated, and physically manifested than at others, it is always, always, always the life force and momentum that drives and feeds both the Dominant and the submissive. In that sweet idyllic state, each seeks to act for the other person’s highest good.
While I presently live in the Black Hills of South Dakota, all Doris Day singing aside, I am not from here originally and do not envision myself staying here for the long term. But, for the right partner? Possibly. Would I relocate? Yes.
Some things that appeal to me:
Genuine, Deep Friendship
Intelligent Conversation
History
The Industrial Revolution
Science
Being Restrained
Art Deco
Renaissance Men
Collars and Shiny Buckles
City Life
Rural Life
Books
The Feel of Rope
Films
Calligraphy and Penmanship
Vintage Things
Good Coffee
A Proper Cuppa
Maxfield Parrish
Corsets
Travel
The Color Black
Kneeling
Cooking
Bootblacking
Frank Sinatra
Leather
The Eclectic and Esoteric
Ball Gags
Classic Cars, Especially British Ones
Browsing Bookshops, New and Old
Stainless Steel
Spanking, Especially Bare-Handed
Handwritten Letters
Steampunk Fashion
Abandoned Urban Architecture
Sterling Silver
Museums, Any and All
Woody Allen Films
Writing, Primarily Prose
Photography
The Great Lakes
Riding Trains
The Sea
Jeans and Black Leather Boots
A Finger Under One’s Chin
Red Hair
Bubble Baths
Lipstick
English Accents
Corsets and Seamed Stockings
The Smell of Leather
Arousal by Scent and Touch
Reading the Sunday Paper
Rockhounding
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