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About Deckwizard
A physically fit, attractive, educated catering to any womans needs. I am preferentially hoping to meet an adventurous and playful woman who considers herself Dominant and cuties to explore and try new things.
Although labels and being put into categories dont sit well with me, if pressed, Id say I consider myself a Submissive . Somehow, I envision my ideal playing partner to be the reverse of this, that is, Dominant.
I suppose an explanation to my post is merited. I believe that different types of relationships are appropriate at different stages in your life. Juggling grad school, work, and making long term investments has consequences. At the moment, a medium term relationship seems most appropriate.I have found, through experience, that the boundaries of a medium term relationship are not in line with everybody.
While I cant say Im very well-versed in the jargon of kinkiness, what continues to attract me and turn me on are the kinks of hotwiferyslutwifery, cuckoldry (although from a far less submissive approach than usually portrayed in porn and erotica, daddygirl.
Breaking it all down in attempt to pinpoint exactly what turns me on, Ive come to find that it is the very process or losing control before regaining this very control through some act of dominance.
Being in a relationship with a woman who is somewhat on the wild side and perhaps even a bit promiscuous would provide plenty of opportunity to produce this very dynamic which I find so arousing.
I firmly believe that ones path emerges as one walks it. In the world of kinks I believe this is perhaps even more true than elsewhere new fantasies emerge when one last expects it and kinks one thought were a defining personality trait somehow die out.
As such, I realize that the fantasies I eventually end up realizing with the woman I hope to encounter here probably wont look exactly like the ones I have in my head at this very moment. After all, these fantasies are supposed to turn us both on in equal measure. Finding a common recipe is therefore crucial.
Awaiting the emergence of the intriguing Ms Right, I suppose all I can do is tell a little bit about the fantasies I hope to make part of my future
I consider myself a very generous lover. It is not really something I consciously set out to be, but I have come to realize that the act of giving turns me on, perhaps even more so than receiving. In this context it is perhaps not surprising that my submissive traits prevail at the expense of my dominant ones - and that I like to share.
Sharing in one or another is a recurrent theme in my fantasies. Usually these fantasies include an extra man rather than an additional woman. Put bluntly, I find it entirely intoxicating to lose the aforementioned control through having to watch or otherwise experience my partner having sex with someone else.
Sometimes these fantasies even include more than just one extra person. Sometimes Im in the room where it all happens, sometimes I listen in over the phone. Other times I wait for her to come home and tell me all about it.
As mentioned, my fantasy world also include the very crucial element of loosing control.
Of course, playing rules of some kind would have to be agreed on.
Even though I could go much more into detail, I believe its better to stop here before I write you into oblivion. |
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