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DebonairMaster

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DebonairMaster - Male Dominant, Malaga | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About DebonairMaster

Do you believe, that personal chemistry and the need for feeling real depth and an overpowering submissive bond, (as opposed to simply having casual S&M sex), is the key to adding meaning to the entire act of offering yourself and your body to serve the total pleasure of your mentor and master?


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I am a successful, handsome, tall, debonair, intelligent owner of over a dozen companies, all of which I built. And rather than email back and forth, you can read here much of what you would want to know about me the man and how I believe in a deep bond (as well as, instead of just S&M sex), is essential in order to be fulfilled. Then if you feel we might fit, email me and perhaps I’ll either bring you to where I am, or I’ll travel near to you and we’ll meet just for lunch or dinner, we’ll never know unless we meet.



I have been lucky in life and have regular opportunities to wine, dine and take beautiful woman for my pleasure; however I have found that “vanilla” or regular casual relationships simply aren’t that fulfilling and having more of them doesn’t give me any more fulfilment…… (hardly surprising, but I’m a man, and men are poor learners), nor do they give me the depth that can only come with a special deep relationship with a wonderful woman who is genuinely attracted to strong man.



You can always find sex or S&M sex, but whilst it may turn you on, do you also at times feel lost and yearn for something more?



I know what I want. A kinky woman! But seriously, I mean a woman who wants to be protected but who has great qualities within herself, is empathic, kind, and compassionate and in a perfect world has many interests and loves to smile and enjoy life. This lifestyle is not everything for me, yes I have a very adventurous mind coupled with a huge sexual desire that will always be thinking up new ways for you to serve my pleasure…….I might make you my maid, my school girl, my secretary, my pet……I will guide and push you to discover your deeper desires, to learn what you really seek. Equally I believe people should be what they are - nothing more nothing less. You will follow my rules because of your bond for me..... and share all you are with me. I am an intelligent, smart and strong gentleman, if you seek a car mechanic or truck driver, then look elsewhere. I would want us to be…. say at a villa on the beach with the lapping of the waves at dusk, having dinner with champagne or fine wine and as you gaze into my eyes, you would know, that soon, you will be mine, totally mine, for me to use for my pleasure.


Equally I believe that the true worth of a Master can be judged by the happiness and contentment and personal growth of his submissive partner. I'll always be the Dominant partner. That's who I am,


If you appreciate your master and mentor being a leader with integrity and if what drives your passion is to truly serve the man who you respect but you want at the same time to truly connect with him, then you should write and offer me more details on yourself and your hopes.



This is what I want of you. I want to relocate you, (and even your child or children), near to one of my homes. Dependant upon your qualities and abilities, I could have one of my companies employ you in a genuine role (I stress genuine, you would be employed because you are capable of that role), which applied your strengths and you felt appreciated in. Or I could make you my live-in maid or a new travelling PA. You would understand that I whilst I won’t necessarily change my philandering ways completely (unless that is we became especially close), I do yearn for a woman who is empathic, relaxed, caring, warm and owned, who I can look after and protect.




But here are my bad points. We all have them and I am confident in myself that allows me to be open and honest. Firstly the same testosterone which drove me from being a penniless graduate to building companies which span many countries, also drives me to often have an insatiable need for sexual fulfilment. I require the woman close to me to submit to dutifully satiating my testosterone-driven needs. And as I am exceptionally well endowed (it’s true), so I require a special most obedient, owned submissive who understands that as I gain greater pleasure from deep penetration of my very large manhood, she must abdicate, submitting totally and willingly accept being restrained or positioned in any way which ensures I have total control to derive and deliver the greatest pleasure for myself. Obtaining total pleasure for myself at your expense, runs deep for me and is so much about stimulating the mind and I will love to push your boundaries to achieve greater pleasure solely for myself. My second bad point is that I am focused, this means sometimes my focus is elsewhere - perhaps on a business deal and that means you won’t get much attention for that period. Thirdly I often travel. Fourthly I have children in another country and although I have parted from my ex-partner, I still take complete care of her and of my children. This includes spending time with them and bringing them all over to one of my homes often during the school holidays.



Can you happily accept the above? Well if so and you were a wonderful submissive partner, and the relationship became truly special, I will seriously consider starting a second family with you.



I have homes in southern Spain, Asia and the US. Travel commitments and workaholic hours mean that the relationship needs to work around my timetable. Fortunately I have the power to relocate you and place you in a new job.



If when we meet, we find we click, then I can bring you to my home which is nearest for us to be together again. As I said above, if you wanted to work for me, whether you are a maid, a secretary, waitress, accountant or a corporate lawyer, I would only employ you because of your attributes and abilities, not because you would serve my needs obediently. Or I could relocate you near to me and help you pursue your own career, whatever makes you more happy and fulfilled. You are important for yourself and who you truly are or can grow and become. I believe personal growth and development enriches our lives.



Just because I'm believe in personal depth and will be sensitive to your feelings and…..romantic (yes flowers do exist and they are beautiful), it doesn't mean I'm any less dominant, instead it means with maturity has come understanding and appreciation that real submission must start and always be in the mind and comes through and because of respect, feeling and trust, not simply with chains in a dungeon, or handcuffs and a whip in a bedroom.



This and personal chemistry are the keys. It’s that certain spark which makes you really want to be with and serve me, to fall asleep resting on my shoulder, to day-dream about when we next meet, to dress up for me, or to chat over a romantic dinner in a fine restaurant, or hope that I will allow you to cuddle up to me on the sofa whilst a log fire burns close by, to dream of being my soul-mate.



Now reply respectfully and tell me about you, what makes you laugh; what makes you smile; what you think you seek; what are the circumstances of your life currently? How are you reconciling the desires you feel with your current lifestyle? You have read that I travel and work too much, so I may not respond immediately, if so you can write again and tell me more. I am serious about bringing one special woman to me.



And whatever happens, good luck in your search, above all find that bond, find your soul mate, don’t accept anything less.



Carpe diem memento mori.


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