Good Day ~
We are a Dom/me couple currently living in the in the country who are seeking a situation with a bi-sexual submissive oriented female desiring to become involved with us. Ideally in a living together situation.
He is a self-employed professional stock market Trader; and she is involved in the medical field. She works a few blocks away, he works from a home office. We both enjoy children, but have none ourselves.
We are both sane, intelligent, college-educated people who are both experienced in the world of D/s based relationships.
Should you wish to have a dialogue - our yahoo messenger nick is DebaucheryLovers
Should you write us, please add your yahoo messenger nickname for that is an easier method to communicate. Note - sadly, with all the fakes on this site, shortly after a few emails and/or IMs, we expect to mutually verify each other with a phone call. (blocked numbers are acceptable). But if you are a game player, please don't waste our time for our search is serious.
We believe in the concept of earned Trust
Trust is everything
Trust is where an emotionally based D/s relationship starts.
I would add one more aspect however : communication
Rule is "If you think it, speak it" (assuming it has merit), lol and not "gee, I have to do my toenails soon" isn't what I mean. But that deeper ability to say anything "deep"
It is very easy for a submissive woman to say flattering things; however, it is very hard for a submissive woman to vocalize something negative or un-flattering; regardless of much it is on her mind. That negative feelings fester and cause issues - so much better simply to get them out of the way before they begin.
Ideally, that like us, you are NOT looking for casual play; but rather than very-hard-to-find "meshing" that CAN exist and makes everything special.
Sensual is better than sexual....
Emotional bond is stronger than physical bond.
A few questions:
1. What book if any is on your bed's nightstand?
2. What is your favorite perfume to wear?
3. Have you been in a D/s based relationship before?
4. What do you do professionally; and/or what was your field of study in college
5. What do you miss the most about not being in a caring D/s relationship? (both non-sexual and sexual)
6. What are some of your greatest un-fulfilled D/s oriented sensual fantasies?
Good day~
Carpe Diem
