I assure you I'm darn cute, super sexy, and look much closer to 20 then my actual 35.
~sighs~
YES
Those are real and YES the pic is of me.
Now read......
So that means YOU should also be FIT, ATTRACTIVE and NO OLDER THEN 45.
I've been involved in D/s relationships for almost 20 years, starting from high school. I used to post all over , and here on this site even, but I'm starting to prefer my photo not be out there.
I've lived with and been collared by pro Doms and Master Riggers, and I've spent a lot of time learning, exploring and playing at various conventions. I enjoy testing my limits, am considered an incredibly hard player, and have experienced and enjoy a multitude of kinks. I was an incredibly active, respected and well liked member of the scene in my previous city.
I'm looking for something real, that walks the fine line between slavery and submission. I'm not a 24/7 slave, no matter how much I can fantasize about it. I need a connection, mental stimulation and a comfortable friendship as well.
Really, all I'm saying there is if we were to spend a full weekend together, there would be conversation and jokes over some of the meals at least, cuddle time on the couch with a movie we both enjoy and at least one good 'ole debate or passionate conversation about a multitude of topics, hobbies and interests we both share.
Let's talk about you now.
I don't really want to be anyone's first first sub anymore, but I never say never. Please just know I'd be incredibly judgmental of the rest of your life, I've learned how to sniff out the Alpha Dom types even in vanilla situation. I'll give you a fair chance if it's who you innately are.
Here's are my 4 MUSTS.
1. Have a close social network.
Be it 3 friends, 30 or 300, vanilla or completely in the scene, (or like my own life, an equal balance of both). My Dom must be loyal, dependable, honest, compassionate, caring, insightful and intelligent if I am to trust him enough to submit. Being the advisor/guru/person everyone always seems to turn to in a social circle shows me some incredibly impressive and sexy qualities.
2. Have someplace we can go, on a whim.
I can understand you're having roommates, or living in just about any situation. If they're cool with what we do behind closed doors, I'm not to embarrassed to go there. If you happen to live someplace where it's best you keep a vanilla profile, well... I can play the perfect 50's housewife game when we are around them... but please.... be in a position that we can grab a decent hotel room when we want, as often as we want then. I mean.... this is what we're doin here, right?
3. Have a job.
I hate that I have to write this, how can someone even think of Domming if they can't maintain a career?
4. Be OK with the fact that I have my own life.
I lead an active life, I'm hoping it's on of the things you'll find attractive about me. I go on different camping trips and conventions focused around various themes. They are important to me, and what define me outside of my D/s self. I would love, and yes, most definitely prefer, a Dom who comes with me to these events, but that isn't necessarily. Just please be understanding and be encouraging of my going, with or without you.
Also, please....
Live within daily visiting distance of DC, or be extra, super, perfectly amazing for me in every other way.
Still, be able to see often enough to make it worth it.
I also prefer to date my own race, you can hate on me all you want, but it is part of who I am and what I find attractive.
