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WIll the real "sub/slaves" PLEASE STAND UP !!!!! Really Getting Tired Of "FAKE" ASS WANNABEES messing up this Site !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Food 4 Thought as it Pertains 2 "Collaring" ......... "TO QUICK TO COLLAR" Perhaps there is a possibility that I am not understanding the concept of collaring and ownership. This may explain my continued state of solitude. The issue at hand is the rising amount of subs and slaves that announce themselves as available on a website on day (1) and in a matter of days or a week or two they make the grand announcement that they are now OWNED and no longer looking. Now I am not opposed to the idea that there may be "love" at first site or a strong attraction to someone who you may feel is the "one". If you know yourself, your needs and desires then of course it is possible that you may recognize most of the necessary attributes quickly in a person that you have just met. Does that mean that you allow yourself to be collared ? Espeacially when u find out that the s/s isnt truely worthy of youre collar. To me collaring or being collared is as great and grave a decision as getting married. Allow me to take that a step further and state that being collared is a little more serious than being married. Marriage is a partnership. 50/50 with each supposedly bring equal assets into the relationship. Decisions are made by both. Contrast this with a Master/slave and even some D/s relationships where you place all of your decision making into the hands of the Dom. Yes your needs and wants are taken into consideration but for the most part the Dom has the FINAL WORD. You would not in your right mind marry someone you just met two weeks ago and plan to spend the rest of your life with them yet you make a decision that has the potential to damage you exponentially for the rest of your life...perhaps even unto physical harm in less than 30 days by allowing yourself to be collared. Maybe I'm inept in some ways but I can't possibly get to know somebody well enough in that short amount of time to feel confident enough to say that I know their needs and desires and that now I will make the final decisions on all they say and do. Perhaps I take things much too seriously. Perhaps I'm in the minority for not wanting to swing from sub to sub or slave to slave . Perhaps........So i say this PLEASE BE CAREFUL in your selection of a worthy s/s inorder to save u both from major disappointment or Risk them pulling a secret background check out on you without your knowledge eventhough u yourself have told them everything there is to know about you and more...........

ITS BEEN AWHILE SINCE MY LAST UPDATE !!!!!! & i truely relize that the spark of defiance in a woman is the energy that excites my heart, feeds my soul and fires my desires. Her tears and pleas and moans and crys and whimpers are the jazz of eroticism that sings to me a song of need and dark desires that must be quenched. her image drapped in sexy gowns and sculpted in corsettes creates the vibrant colors of mystery, intrigue, hunger and promise. the collar around her neck is a subtle statement of My power and her need to submit. My leash is attached to the hand that guides her to the place where she will feel My strength and My love. when I take her by the hair and drag her to the altar of pain she will resist although in her heart she knows that resistance in futile and I will take her through the dance of dominance and submission until all of her defenses are exhausted and she cries for Me to take her.The human soul is comprised of three spheres of enegry: The mind, emotions and spirit. The touching of all three can only be achieved through the all encompassing energy of love. Love is the only reality, all else is distraction, obfuscation and the darkness of lies. I seek that which touches mind, emotion and spirit. My dominance lies deep inside and My truth is that I must express that dominance in a pure and honest way. Therefore, I must touch my submissive and be touched by her in every way possible. If this does not occur then We are playing a game and my life is not a game at all. It is My reality and my path toward something greater.I am looking for something of great value. A D/s relationship that is so strong that a shared glance tells us both what we need to know about what is to come. I need a home filled with love, eroticism, sexuality, joy, peace and growth. A tall order-yes! But what could be a more worthy pursuit?

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