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I'm not good at making the first move in contacting people. If youve viewed me I'll probably view you back but I'm not brave enough to send a first message. Please don't let that stop you though. |
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It's been a few days now and my female friend and I are still chatting away. We've become firm friends and kindred spirits. When one of us is down we are there to make each other smile. I never expected to find someone as cool as her but I did, and I'm so glad. |
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This site can get to you, you think you've made a connection then just like that you haven't as the person no longer answers you or you rudely get blocked. But every now and again a bright diamond appears and suddenly I've made the best friend ever. She and I are spookily on the same wavelength and its so great to be able to talk to someone who understands lifes complexities and the struggle that women have trying to find a decent guy. She's been through a lot in her life but she's a total catch and if you've ignored or turned her away her, wow did you miss out. |
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I was blocked in the middle of a conversation with no explanation. Its made me feel awful now as it took a bit hit on my confidence.
Are there no decent people out there?
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What does a girl have to do to find herself a decent guy here? Why is it so difficult? |
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If you're going to contact me...
1. please be real and not a fantasist
2. have a clear idea of what you require and sort of life plan. I'm not in this for just sex, I need a proper relationship and I'm not going to accept anything less.
3. be there, I need contact and communication.
4. be prepared to commit to this
5. I'm not sending you pics right away. If you prove trustworthy and you make me feel at ease then maybe then. Never before.
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Are there actually any decent Doms out there? Ones that want to get to know you first, build up a rapport and have decent conversation instead of just demanding naked photos or videos straight away?
Surely there's more to this than just sex. Where are you? |
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'Deleted unread', I don't think I've ever seen that pop up before and never thought anyone actually did that... |
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Today has been a good day and I'm very proud of myself. |
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After getting some sage advice about chastity, I now have my first device and I'm finding it oddly comforting and comfy. I really like it. |
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Been considering chastity devices. It's cropped up a few times in conversations with Doms but I've never tried one. Any advice or recommendations? |
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Well I'm still here. Had lots of conversations with people, some good and some bad but I'm still here. I'm determined to find the right person eventually. I won't give up. |
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I just realised that I didn't state that I was happy to relocate. I am, very much so for the right person. |
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Just to make things clearer when contacting me, I identify as a transwoman. I have always thought of myself as female ever since I was first aware of who and what I waa, just stuck in the wrong body - which has caused me considerable upset over the years. I am on the path to righting that now but please don't address me as a cross dresser or sissy as I am neither. I have no issue with those that are, but those terms do not describe me. Treat me as female and we'll get on fine x |
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I do love this site and I've had some good and bad conversations with people. Some have scared me but others I wish I could have gotten to know better. I'm still hopeful that one day I will find the one that will stick around to get to know me and mean what they say. They must be out there somewhere? |
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