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Male Dominant, 42, San Antonio, Texas
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About Darqsyde
I am a Dominant man.? I am not a "Dom" or "Master" and I think checking boxes like this and using titles like these is just the other side of ridiculous.
I don't play at this its just the way I am, an attitude I bring to life.? I'd like you to have the attitude that meshes with that.
Starting over at 50 and now there'll be no settling. If you have a list of perversions and deviant interests as long as your arm I will consider your request for consideration as a member of the poly(ish) life I am trying to form.
Poly life needs a definition. If you are so inclined to include others in your life, to me you are poly. Occassional threesomes, friendly fuckbuddies, or live in other members of our family all qualify.
I am not demanding a functioning triad but certainly expect you to want the occassional experience of another person in our bed.
Honesty has never seemed to get me anywhere but intrinsically I have no desire to spin a web of deception to gain access to your fuckhole. Neither do I have any interest in spinning a web to gain access to your mind. So here's the deal...I'm still married legally and reside with my wife and child. I will be in that situation for however long it takes and how long that might be I can only say sooner rather than later ... if you're still reading this I will be glad to tell you all the gory details when we meet for that no strings attached cup of coffee or lunch in a very public and safe place. My wife and I have both discussed our marriage and both realize that it is over. Our friendship is not. Our daughter will bond us forever. What we had can never be undone or erased from our memories. This is life not a fairytale. My departure from the home is inevitable yet cannot be immediate.
If you can deal with this as it slowly changes and you want to ?build something longterm, (not that I'm adverse to something of a more casual nature), then by all means, I welcome you saying hello.
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sometimes I think I should have changed my nick to chameleon. I want different things at different times but when I find someone with whom I click I just want it to work.
Do you think life is about settling? we start out with a list of desires and likes and meet someone who might have some of this and some of that...having someone who checks all of the same boxes you do...well, what are the odds of that? So we say, ok, so they don't like shoving flounders up their ass ... can I really and truly live with that ... and not look at all the other people who DID check that box and be envious? for the rest of my life? hmmmmm..... |
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