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Male Submissive, 19, kersey, Pennsylvania
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About darksmilez
I am fairly new to this lifestyle, but have many lessons from it. I would consider myself more of a service/sensual sub. I believe it is the little things in life that make a person happy, because they are the things that make up the big picture of life... :) D/s in a way for me is a way of confronting my fears and allowing myself to grow emotionally. What I find most appealing about D/s are the emotional and psychological aspects - Although the physical side is fun too... :) Take my mind and my body will gladly follow... :) I havre a new BDSM checklist that is more complete then the one here. Please ask if you would like to learn more about me. I do have one rule now.. and that is No sex until we have formed a relationship. I am not in it for the one or two night stands. So please don't waste my time as well as yours.
Here is a poem I wrote myself it is called "The Isolation". I hope you enjoy it.. :)
Where do we go?
Feeling so alone.
Where can we turn?
Worlds slipping away.
How will it end?
The Isolation.
How will we cope?
Disjoining beings.
How will we see?
Watching from afar.
How will it end?
The Isolation.
Who do we see?
So many souls lost.
Who will care Lord?
Souls passing through time.
When will it end?
The Isolation.
I am looking for a Daddy/Dom type who is understanding, yet who is firm. I am looking for friendship first. Let's see what happens from there if nothing does then we can still have fun as friends.. :) R/T ONLY, I am not interested in cyber or phone sex. I also prefer local Doms if possible, but open-minded other areas as long as you are willing to travel though. Unfortunately my job doesn't allow me the time to travel that often. If you would like to learn more about me, please email me..
Here is an article that explains a Daddy Dom and what I am looking for...
Daddy Dom is the tenderest of all Dominants. He loves His little one with an undying passion. He always has his submissives best interest in mind, even when it conflicts with his personal desires. That doesnt mean that he gives into her every whim. There can be a huge difference in her desires and her real needs. He has to be able to make that sacrifice for her if needed. And yes, at times he does punish her. This usually hurts him just as much if not more than her, but he will always do whats best for her.
He helps her set and reach her goals in life, not just in the lifestyle. He will help her improve herself to be the best she can be, not for HIM but for her! Hes not just looking to make her a better submissive, but a better person in general.
He becomes many things in her life, a mentor, a teacher, a protector, a guide, AND a lover! He offers her what she needs most of all, unconditional love and acceptance. He is consistent in his actions so that she knows what to expect from him, she knows she can depend on him!
He wants nothing more than to pull her close and protect her from the cruel world. But knowing all along that he cant! SO it is up to him to prepare her for whatever life may through her way and be there to comfort her when things go wrong. Knowing she will run to him when she becomes overwhelmed or frighten by the harshness of life. The Daddy Dom will listens to all her fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly or childish they may sound to him, to her they are real and he will help her confront them. He slays her dragons so to speak and he is her "Knight in Shining Armor".
The Daddy Dom hears all her dreams, desires and all the dirty little secrets, and smiles because she is bold enough and loves him enough to open herself up so totally to him. He kisses her face and holds her close letting her know she is loved no matter what. She is His little one, and he loves her unconditionally.
There is nothing more satisfying to him than to see her succeed, to watch as she grows as a person. He revels in her daily accomplishments almost as much as she does herself.
He will cuddle her and show her the tenderness she craves when she needs it, when she feels unsure of herself he will whisper encouraging words for her. When she feels ugly he will reassure her how beautiful she is to him ... when she is scared he will be her safety net, her medium against the world if need be. She is his pride and joy his main comfort in life his reason for living. His pride in her shows in the tender loving way he cares for her, she is the one that puts the twinkle in his eye! Even though she is all woman, she is his little one and he is her Daddy! Just remember he may be a Daddy but he is still and foremost, a Dom!
P.S. I am also very interesting in lactation too... |
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Wooohooo I made the Dean's list at school.. :D
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