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Male Dominant, 52, Amarillo, Texas
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Female Submissive, 45, South bend, Indiana
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About DarkDee
I am a computer professional, and enjoy being who I am. I have dated gals in most of the professions....nursing, social work, librarian, school teacher, gymnastics coach, cheerleader, banker, lawyer, real estate agent....I think the most important thing is being yourself...and I will try to be myself. I don't like people that are not who they pretend to be. I don't have a "type" when it comes to dating, just as long as it is non smoker, or light smoker...non-drug user, and not married.....I tend to be a little traditional in that respect:)
If you don't enjoy dating, and bringing a gentleman a glass of tea on a hot summer day, you probably aren't a person I would like to be with...I believe there is a natural submissiveness to a male/female relationship...I don't force anything...it is a give and take...and people try to manipulate and control....but that isn't what dom/sub is to me. I want a submissive or fiesty brat who still loves to be submissive when it is ok to trust and be loved. I don't put people on pedestals...so I don't try to do the goddess or anything like that....but i am curious about a household with a co-domme and a submissive...a mommy and a daughter or two sisters, perhaps....without the sexual pressure....just fun and sharing the financial burden of living costs.
I love education. Librarians and teachers...I am soooo interested. I can read a bed time story...coloring books...OK...I am artistic as well...so I am not against taking a trip to a lake and pulling out the painting sets...and sitting side by side and painting the scenery....but I am also game for a run to a sports bar to watch a basketball tournament...and you being a flirt isn't going to make me jealous. I do have a fun ex that loves to play the part if you like to be jealous and see her cuckqueen you.....if that is something you would enjoy.
I am honest when I say that I have no interest in interracial relationships...it is something that has come up before...I prefer to date within my race...I also don't enjoy being tricked or manipulated by someone that feels it their duty to "reform" me.....I will never change on this....it isn't racist...it is simply something that I am going to be honest about.
I love sensory play...so fuzzy cuffs and satin sheets...blindfolds...jello...sheep skin...I am creative when it comes to exploring and having fun...behind closed doors....but I think most of the sexual component is overemphasized...the best part of a friendship that has kink components is companionship...you have to enjoy being with the person you are with...and it is fun to cuddle and watch netflix...or right now...to study at the library together...and play footsies...and share a bag of potato chips....lol.
There are those that are poly...and that means you want to score with as many people as you can...I am probably not one of those people...there is a spiritual and meaningful connection to a relationship...and I prefer to not get involved with those that take relationships so lightly....I might play with rope or a class with you...but I don't think we will be that involved.
My fetishes are not in the pvc...or the bootblack society...I like to think of my fetish as strawberry....not really into the pain...so if you are a sadist, masochist, or a sadomasochist...I am not going to get into bruises and bloodletting or paddling....I might hand swat if you are a bad girl...or maybe like the extra stimulation during certain moments...but...I am not into pain, bloodletting, and that involves needles. Also I don't get into the diaper play....little without being not yet potty trained isn't my thing.
I love the smell of leather...and the tease of a well thought out wardrobe that includes lace and garter belts....but I don't think it overkill to dress sexy without being overly vulgar....a night wearing my dress shirt..and no panties or bra are fine...
I don't do drugs, smoke cigarettes, or anything illegal. I take care of my body...work out regularly...walk and hike frequently, and swim when I can find a place to do so. If you are interested...just send me a note...I may or may not be on here frequently....I am DarkDAt Techiedotcom.
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Life is always busy, but the fun thing is taking time out....five minutes a day, and meditating on the calm....I love to visualize the ripples of a rock hitting a glassy pond surface....and as the ripples move away from where the rock went into the water...to see the inter connectedness I have with the world around me....I don't litter because i want future generations to enjoy the nature that I enjoy....I don't see the land as something we own....maybe we are caretakers of it. We can cultivate it, leave it wild, or destroy it. I think a lot of our relationships are like that.
We can choose to destroy by polluting, cultivate by pulling weeds and planting a garden, or leave it wild...and merely take care of it so it can thrive. I think the approach I take in relationships is either cultivate it...so I can nurture and plant....or let it thrive as it is in its natural state....
All of the chaos around us makes sense when we step back from what we seem to be important at the time, and see the world as we want to see it. We can choose to be a part of it, and let it be an influence on our life choices, or we can choose to be what we want...and carefully select our choices to get to a carefully thought out life plan. If we look at the cultivated relationship, where there is a lot of trust and comfort with being with each other....we can carefully choose the path we wish to go down....and the results are more likely to be what we want in the long run. OK....happy zen moment...hope everyone is happy and sees the pretty flowers growing under the canopy of the forest....and the babbling brook.... |
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