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Male Dominant, 48
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Dominant Couple, 40, Montclair, New Jersey
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Male Dominant, 41, Kalamazoo, Michigan
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About DARKCAGEMASTER
Moderation has been called a virtue to limit the ambition of great men, and to console undistinguished people for their want of fortune and their lack of merit." - Benjamin Disraeli
This profile is getting fucking long.
If you slog through it, there's a reward at the end!
ME:
Dominance is not a constructed persona I put on in the bedroom.
It is an integral aspect of who I am.
I'm not in the scene as a Dominant because is the only place I can express being an Alpha; my Dominance and my sexuality are a reflection of my actual life, where I am used to being in charge, and I work to get what I want, when I want it, how I want it.
I'm not that guy who's been reading Shades of Grey and the Gor books, excited to put on a puffy pirate shirt after a shift waiting tables and go to my first play party where women might call me "sir", or who chases every new woman with an ad in 'Classified' offering to give you some bullshit virtual collar in 5minutes. I have been involved with BDSM for almost 20yrs now, and have little tolerance for the trappings and bullshit that distract from what I see as the core.
While I am a Dominant, I don't define myself solely by that.
BDSM is an aspect of who I am, not the totality. I believe this important to stress, as most people in the scene seem to expect, as well as prefer to be seen as, uni-dimensional shapes... cardboard portrayals of their BDSM inclinations. My life is much fuller and richer than just BDSM.
Yours should be as well. If not, why isn't it?
I dislike most of the online interaction options, and most social media in general. I live in the Meat world, and I succeed and thrive there.
2 points:
~ **There is no such thing as "online BDSM".**
It's real and you can touch it; else you're just projecting your unmet wants and needs across the internet to a semi-reflective surface.
It's a joke to call "online only" by the term BDSM.
~ I dislike the sum concept of social media, **and particularly despise that this site has devolved into "kinky Facebook".**
I have an actual real and busy life, and neither time nor desire to waste time sending /reading assorted bursts of Narcissistic personality disorder monologues.
If any of that offends you, hit the "next" button and keep on steppin'.
You won't fancy me much, and the feeling will certainly be mutual.
Okay then! That said, let's move on.
Who am I?
*NON BDSM aspects*
~ I'm a "suit", an executive in the BioMedical industry w/ a strong income & fascination for finance, investing, making & keeping money.
~ As a scientist, I can be highly analytical and frequently dispassionate.
~ I despise inefficiency, in systems, process and people.
~ I'm a military vet, which I see increasingly as having had a real impact on me during a defining period of my life.
~ I am very demanding of myself, and, by extension, of others.
~ I have multiple degrees, and am a voracious reader.
~ I enjoy & collect wine, mainly strong reds and Champagnes.
~ For several years, I've explored Asian cinema, particularly Chan-wook Park & Takashi Miike, and find it fascinating. More recently, however, the new wave movie generation from Mexico is resonating for me.
~ I own homes near the beach in India and US,
~ I'm a mild nut about health & fitness. |
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