Dappled

I'm mostly looking for conversation. If I happened to have such wonderful conversations with someone that we both want to take it to another level then bob's your uncle. But I'm not expecting that to happen... and neither should you.

Aside from all that I guess you're expecting a description. I'm a sci-fi lovin' geek who's travelled the world (lived on 3 continents so far), I'm so desperate to grow things I've managed to fit a vege/herb garden, as well as fish, cats and caterpillars into a tiny tiny flat.
I'm an inventive cook, I'm honourable but not neccessarily moral and my DVD shelf holds... lets see, Kill Bill, Fargo, M*A*S*H, House MD, Princess Bride, V for Vendetta, etc etc... and those are the ones I got on sale :)
I'm a writer and I love walking around in the forest or snorkeling and watching all the pretty fish.
That stuff is me just as much as the submissive fantasies I enjoy. And for me they are just fantasies... what turns me on, not what I need to fulfill my life, like I understand other people need.
So if you are only interested in the submissive part, or consider me a player for not falling to my virtual knees as soon as you write me an unintelligible sentence, well, good luck with that.
Course, if you're one of the people I'm complaining about right now you probably didn't bother to read this far, so who'm I kidding?
P.S. I hate doing this, but it becomes necessary. I don't like pigeonholing people I respond to, but I really don't feel comfortable talking to older men on a 'dating' website.
I realise that in many cases older men can have fulfilling relationships with younger women, but I just don't feel comfortable with it. In the first place, the only reason to contact me over a woman closer to your own age on here is probably because you want some young arse no matter how intellectually interesting you say I seem, there are plenty of older women with even more experiences etc.
In some cases its a legitimate fetish, but its not mine, sorry. To be harsh about it, the only older men I'd really be interested in, would most likely not be interested in me-they'd be more interested in people who could match them in experience and wisdom, otherwise whats the point?
So, what that amounts to is that from now on, I'm probably not going to answer you if you are much above late 30's.