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danoli

Male Switch, 46, New Hyd Park, New York
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danoli -  Dominant Couple, Austin Texas | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

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About danoli

Who I am


I'm a strong and confident yet emotional Daddy Dominant. I feel deeply and like people who can handle me expressing those feelings. While my love and devotion can be limitless, my rage can run just as deep when necessary. If we have compatible kinks I enjoy pushing a sub to her limit, allow her to drop into sub space, and bringing her back to the present. This is always controlled and done with emotional and physical safety in mind even when it doesn't feel that way in the moment.


I know, however that I am flawed as a person and I'm not too proud to admit it. I tend to absorb and radiate energy. If you're happy I am happy. If your sad I become sad. For this reason, I desire people in my life who are strong, independent, smart, funny, concerned about physical fitness, very positive and always reassuring. Sounds like a tall order? Well perhaps it is, but I'm worth it, and if I allow you into my life you will see I am able to give so much more in return.

History


I've always been a Dom at heart but meeting my first baby girl really allowed me to grow into my true self. I feel like a more complete version of myself when I have a pretty girl on my arm who worships me and has complete trust in my judgment. My first REAL D/s relationship broke my heart. I learned a lot about myself and what my true nature is. There was a time when I questioned my intentions. But, through the help of some very dedicated women in my life, I am strong and resolute. I may have suffered a couple of great losses but those losses don't define me. I will always crave honesty, openness, and dominance over an equal partner. I provide and require both Honesty AND Transparency within my interpersonal relationships. (If you're not sure of the difference I will explain it)
Finding this lifestyle was finding a calling. I'm not JUST a kinky freak but rather someone who LIVES this lifestyle. I realize that I have a natural talent and that while like most people I find sex very fun I also realize it gives me the ability to venture deep inside another person's soul. I can help them release what they can otherwise not let go of and give their life structure where it was lacking in exchange for trust and submission.

Where I'm at now


In line with my own personal growth and continuing my life journey, I'm again accepting applications for girls looking to be a submissive, a house slave, a little or a daddy's girl. You should know that am picky and while I love to explore physical boundaries with my friends I don't sleep around with just anyone so stop asking (you know who you are) LOL I have a very wonderful, sub/slave/pet/play partner/baby girl/confidant, that worships the ground I walk on. We enjoy each other and play well with others but we're very selective so it doesn't happen often and when it does its with a close friend. I also play alone, and on an extremely rare occasion with my permission or instruction she plays alone. To any outsider we would appear to have a very ordinary relationship but make no bones about it I OWN her and she's very happy about it.


In the past we have been happy sharing our life with another person. Someone with whom she can confide in and share in the duties of service to me (I can be quite insatiable at times). Someone who could use my guidance and strength to learn & grow and accept my weaknesses as evidence that I too am ever improving. Having a happy triad is nice but a lot of work and I don't expect it will just happen with anyone. After all if we are going to share our life equally with someone it would take time to see if they can add dimension, perspective, and complexity to our dynamic. I understand that many people enjoy bottoming and service topping. I don't have any problem with that but it is very different from submission. I take my position seriously and I put my subs best interest ahead of my own. This comes with a trade off though I expect to be regarded with the same consideration. I can enjoy kinky fun with a cool person but I place a great deal of value on a healthy D/s dynamic because of the emotional bond that resides at its core. If you think this sounds good to you please understand you will not be and should not think of yourself as a replacement for anyone but rather, you would be a complement to our dynamic and have your own unique place that you will help define. If you are interested in relocating to the Austin area and would like to be a house slave for a contracted period of time I'm certain we could arrange a type of indentured servitude that is mutually beneficial to all.


Above all other qualities you should be smart (if you consider yourself intellectual that's even better) I love great smiles, flat (or flat-ish) bellies, petite women are a plus but not mandatory, and have impeccable grooming.
Congratulations you reached the end. Clearly you exhibit the patience, dedication and interest in me that I enjoy. Please message me to collect your prize.

My Art


My other major interest is my art. This falls into two, as of now, non-converging mediums. The first is rope bondage. I'm not strict to any one style but I am much more influenced by the Japanese aesthetic. My goal is often less about restraint and more about accentuating a woman's natural shape. That being said if I think you look most beautiful in a specific position I might employ rope to keep you restrained in that position. Lol I enjoy making my tying sessions very erotic. I enjoy the journey as much as the results. Ground work and suspensions are featured equally in my work but I don't consider myself a rigger per se. The term nawashi is more fitting to me being an artisan. I enjoy sharing and learning and I have no ego about my rope skill. I do my thing and some people like my style but I am often humbled by the work of others. I owe much of my ability to the people who were generous with their time and expertise.
The second is fine furniture design and construction. Having recently relocated to Austin my workshop is not set up for production yet but I still design large pieces and make small items like paddles. I am not a retailer though. I have little interest in making items to sell or taking orders. This is my art and I don't want to mix it with commerce. All that being said when I finish pieces that don't have a home I will post them online and auction them off to recoup the cost and donate the rest to charity anonymously.


Have you ever wanted to relocate to Austin but just don't have the means?

We are currently looking for an Indentured Servant. We have a lovely home in a safe area with access to pool gym tennis courts etc. You would have your own furnished room with a walk in closet, internet access, and anything you might need. You don't need to bring anything but your clothes. In exchange for room and board you will belong to us 6 days a week. 

You will be the house slave. Your duties will include mopping, vacuuming, loading & unloading the dishwasher, keeping laundry clean & folded, and meals prepped or cooked depending on your ability. This agreement with be contracted for a set period (perhaps 6 months) which we can all agree on. This should give you plenty of time to find a job, prepare for school, save for your own apartment or beg to stay with us longer. 

Sex will not be a part of your expected service. However, we are sexual people who often run around naked so you should be comfortable with that and find us attractive. If sex happens it will be voluntary (If part of your kink involves being a sexual slave we can discuss further but it will depend on a mutual attraction). 

You should be between 18-35 years old, submissive, looking to make a change in your life and enjoy all the wonderful things Austin has to offer.

15 Questions you should think about and be comfortable answering if you'd like my attention. hehehe

  1. Are you capable of, and thrive on, intense, intimate, emotionally open relationships. Is this evident in the number of nourishing, sustaining, and life affirming friendships you've made over the years.

  2. Are you a giver. Do you often need help to ration yourself because your impulses nearly always lead you to want to do good for others even if its hard for you.

  3. Are you capable of intense joy, especially in the context of a sustaining relationship.

  4. Do you find significant relaxation when properly related to. Are you at ease in that place.

  5. Do you have finely tuned interpersonal sensitivity. Are you reactive to subtle shifts in the emotional tone of others.

  6. Do you have a fluidity of self, a flexibility that enables you to adapt to changing circumstances.

  7. Are you playful.

  8. Do you have no more than the usual cultural conflicts about your body, and its goodness and beauty.

  9. Do you take pride in your accomplishments.

  10. Do you accept yourself as you are, knowing that while culture values independence and self sufficiency, you have strong dependency needs and that there is no inherent "wrongness" about those needs.

  11. do you seek nourishing relationships.

  12. Do you find, in accepting yourself "as is" and being tolerant of others. But will not allow anyone to tell her what your inner truth should be.

  13. Do you have a reasonable self concept, are you aware of your difficulties as well as your strengths.

  14. Do you hunger is to be the object of an intense and penetrating understanding. When your nature is understood and you are held in a loving and firm frame, would your devotion be is almost limitless.

  15. Do you have an enormous capacity for devotion, from which springs your service to others

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