DandToksicity


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	About DandToksicity We're looking for a pet/slave to add to our little family. In this search, we've found an extraordinary amount of undesirables ranging from scams to fakes to liars. One thing I've found, though, is that many whom identify as "slave" have little desire to be one and just want to be roughed up a little during sex. This is not the primary purpose of our search. We're looking for one who truly has a desire to be owned; to be guided in her life and no longer make decisions for herself; to dedicate herself to serving and pleasing (indeed, one who naturally gets pleasure from that service). We're looking for one to take in, that I will control and use, yes, but one who wants to be controlled and wants to be used. To really be a match for us, you should be excited, happy, pleased, etc at the idea of being property, valued property perhaps, but property, nonetheless. More info: The slave we seek will be a live in slave. This is for a 24/7 total power exchange situation. We're not into games or flakes. We expect a potential slave to be serious about serving and pleasing. A slaves purpose in life is to obey and please her Owner. Slaves with long lists of demands don't need to bother here; a slave girl does not make rules, she follows them. The live-in slave will be used hard. We do not want a delicate little princess. She will be a sex slut for her Master, performing any and all sexual acts at her Masters whim. She will also be given pain, the Dom of this couple is a sadist. Aside from sexual acts, she'll be expected to obey any other tasks. This could potentially include house chores, behavior modification, following specific dress rules, receiving any random act of humiliation He chooses to give at His whim, and basically anything else He thinks up. All commands must be obeyed without argument. She would be allowed few to no limits. Age is not an issue for us. Naturally you must be over 18, and although over 40 is less likely to be considered, the right girl is the right girl. More Criteria: A big selling point to us is a girl that is not only a match as a slave, but also as a companion in general. We're somewhat nerdy. We like video games, game of thrones, doctor who, walking dead. We have 6 computers (counting laptops) in our house. Someone who would fit in socially with us would be strongly considered over one who does not. Though, the potential slave will be considered based on all qualities. The Dom has several years of experience and is a natural. He is a true Dom and is in control of everything. Your whole existence is completely in His hands. His primary pleasure and need from this search is the control, the power exchange. Sex, sadism, kinks are fun but are mostly perks of the control dynamic. The sub a very spunky, and loves to please her Dom, but in that she is also his fiance, she would as well be considered your superior and would also be making use of you. She can be switchy and Domme to women. Outside of BDSM, we are both employed professionals and are financially stable. He enjoys music and she enjoys artsy things. Finding a girl for a 24/7 relationship is the end goal, but some play here and there before then is perfectly acceptable as well. Friends are also welcome. Even if you don't necessarily fit our description of an ideal girl, don't hesitate to message. Photo's available for those who seem like a good fit.

This is a little FYI for everyone here.

If a slave has a lists of demands; she/he is not a slave.

A submissive retains the freedom of choice, to set a standard of expected treatment - a slave does not. Naturally, a slave could be considered to retain some key hard limits, after all this is still supposed to be "safe, sane, and consensual" (consensual being more or less out the door after some initial agreements are made, depending on things), but a slave does not get a list of demands. If she declares, and is firm on, specifics for her use and day to day treatment then she is a sub, or maybe just a slut. To each their own and I'm not attempting judgment at any particular relationship preferences, but lets call it like it is, shall we.

Finally, we're pretty much finished moving into the new house. It's nice. Also, looking for one cute roommate to join us here.

Interestingly enough the slave that used my lottery system to find her owner has found with it. I'm proud of her for sticking towards her word to use that system even after the fact that she wanted to submit to myself. A personal loss but it's good to see some integrity.

As an immediate follow up to my last entry, the slave whom was given the suggestion to use a lottery system to find her owner has edited her profile to include the request for number submissions. I'm impressed with her dedication to giving up control. It would be nice to see more such people that stand behind their claims. I'm only curious now to see if at the end of this lottery she is owned by the person who chose the closest number. Will update here if I get any further information.

I had a thought, which was brought on by a slave who mentioned something along the lines of not wanting to have the control to decide whom she gives her control to.

My answer for her: Make it a lottery system to find her owner. I've seen many slave profiles on here declaring they don't want any control, not even in choosing an owner. I've seen ones that say they simply want to be grabbed off the street (honestly not smart for either party). Well if you find yourself not wanting any control of your life at all, why not stick to that completely? This method is not, of course, for those more specific in their desires.

The method is simple. Write down the names of all parties interested, put them into a hat (bowl, whatever) and draw a name. Alternatively, putting a blip on your profile about the intention and requesting all interested persons message a number between 1-1000. Prior to this, you'd have picked a number at random, whomever gets the closest number is the choice.

*not for the feint of heart or weak of will, this would only work for those truly wanting to lose all control*

Actually talked to a very promising slave tonight. It is refreshing to meet slaves that understand the concept of being property - aka, being a slave. On other news, our house is in escrow so we'll be homeowners very soon. Pretty exciting.

Ahhh... Goodnight CM. Met a another weird-o tonight...and not the good sort of fun, kinky weirdo we all know and love.

Don't assume that just because you've been spoken to or responded to, that I automatically wish to run over and put a collar on you :-).

It's a shame so many are here for the game of it. For the act of Dominance or submission. It's important to remember that a Dom doesn't need to come across as an presumptuous ass in order to be a Dominant. Having control of His own self is a key part of having control of anything or anyone else. So in that you might not often see me succumb to the stereo-typical behavior of a "Dominant", for I don't need to put on a show to be what I am. Further, I also am not likely to give a detailed list of specific sexual acts I want to do or describe a long scene. I'm here to find a slave to serve regardless of what my specific desires are at the time; one, two or even a handful of scenes or tasks would not ever convey what a lifetime of my imagination would provide; and I have no intent on providing people masturbation material.

Updated our profile finally, has a little more about what we're looking for and who we are.

Lake tahoe should be fun!

Germany is confirmed, tickets are bought. We're pretty excited. We'll be there over a week and will have some free time for many of the days. :-)

We're taking a trip to Germany in July. I wonder if there's anyone fun to play with near Dusseldorf while we're there.

Fun camping trip planned for this weekend at the lake. Not much better than swimming and sex in the great outdoors.

-Darren

After many unanswered messages, and a few rejections, it seems success may be ours. It is tentative, and we are still in introduction mode, it seems promising. I await my master's guidance. Patiently I await his return and his embrace. I will continue my hunting and in time I know I will find success and bring his a slave worthy of his affections.

I'm noticing something obnoxious, and way to common around here. All the so called slaves and subs seem to be making all the rules and setting the bar. Doesn't that defeat the entire purpose of being a slave. If your a slave, you are completely at the will of your dom. I'm a little confused by the slaves with a ton of boundaries and rules. To each their own I guess, but I think its false advertising and completely inaccurate to claim slave status yet make demands and set the rules. Whatever, its frustrating. If you want to completely submit to someone, ask for the privilege to serve the dom that most suits you. But get off your high horse about it. You're a submissive, that means you're not in charge. Whatev. _

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