dancinglovingla


DancingDom Male Dominant, 53, Santa Maria, California	dancingbloke Male Dominant, 44, N.W. UK	dancingstar Female Submissive, 34, Bay Area, California

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	About dancinglovingla Check me out on FL - bellydancingdruid.- I'm not on here much. I am currently under consideration and have a beautiful girlfriend. this one is a red silk Gorean kajira. she is well trained and keeps herself busy by improving herself and growing all the time. she is a bit of a hippie and a pain slut. she is growing, healing, loving and experiencing every moment of the day. she is worth pursuing and worth loving. she will not settle for less. she has found that polyamory really does work for her though she has not worked out all the specifics about her thoughts of this in her head. fire, honor and silk, amaya rose

"Recovery is when fun becomes fun; love becomes love; and life becomes worth living" - Melody Beattie Let fun be fun - enjoy every moment of your life to the fullest. Love purely for the sake of love. Let it all just be enough. Don't pick fights, don't try to change another person, just love.

"The greatest thing you will ever learn is just to love and be loved in return" - Moulin Rouge

Live life because you can. All you have is you! "Life is about becoming who you are and all that you were meant to be. It's about growing, dreaming and taking chances. It's about loving courageously and never holding back. It's about finding a brighter, better way - not just today, but every day. There will never be another you. You owe it to yourself and the world to make the most out of all that is in you. Don't just go through life - grow through life. Keep blooming into your incredibly, gloriously brilliantly beautiful self. The possibilities? Endless" - Forward from the book Bloom

she stands unattended... gazing across a gulf of space, of time... her heart yearns, her soul aches... an icy breeze lifts long mahogany hair from her bare shoulders, silk pressing against alabaster skin... she shivers there, without and within... her thoughts are frenzied with need, with unfulfilled desire... she craves His touch, His embrace, His guidance and His love.... she longs for Him... she will wait for Him... lost and alone... forever

1) The only person those of you hurt by talking about me behind my back is yourself. Go ahead, you only prove who you are and your own lack of character.
2) I am good enough. I will not change who I am just because other people are jealous/intimidated/whatever. I have fought through hell to get where I am and I will be damned if I let anyone else drag me down.
3) Drama is for the weak, for the childish and for the insecure. I love who I am and will avoid this kind of juvenile behavior no matter what lengths I have to take.
4) Surround yourself by people who build you up and make you feel welcome.
5) Don't try to fit into a mold you think everyone else wants you in if it's really not you. The only person you hurt is yourself and those who want you to change aren't your friends anyway.
6) Money isn't everything. I have an amazing family and an amazing job. I have great friends who have stuck by my side and believe in me and that's all I need.
7) I know that whatever comes my way I'll get thorough it. I am good enough, I am strong enough and I am worth it. So screw anyone who tries to make me feel less ... you can't do that if I don't let you and I won't let you.
8) I have loved and lost, I have had my heart broken to the very depths and still I see you all clearly - the good, the bad, the indifferent, the ignorant.
9)Re-walk, run, yoga, pilates, swimming, etc). It increases endorphins and gives you energy for the day.

10) Laughter with those who love you the most and love you more than the world can never replace false laughter with those who think they know you and judge you behind your back.
11) Life is like a telephone - don't believe half of what you hear, it's usually all speculation anyway. You want the truth? Go straight to the source for a straight answer - that is if the person with whom you are dealing is an adult.
12) Find what makes you feel free and never let anyone take that away from you.
13) Fly with your own wings. There aren't always going to be people around to fix your mistakes so take responsibility for yourself and fix it yourself.
14) Laugh in the face of ignorance. Those who have truly open minds will never judge you for your own thoughts, feelings or needs
15) Those who cause drama are the most insecure. Pity them, shake your head and walk away, but never ever let them drag you down to their level - they will always fight dirty
16) Sometimes the hardest decisions in our lives are the most freeing and most beneficial. Sometimes you just have to jump head first to find out if you can sink or swim.
17) Life is all about the experiences good or bad - they teach you something valuable.
18) I just have to find my own path, which is really nothing new. As my father always told me .. I don't just go to the beat of a different drummer I make up my own music as I go along. I always have and I always will - it's just not always respected which is ok.
19) "Don't argue with idiots, they'll bring you down to their level and beat you with experience" - most relevant quote ever right now
20) When your concerns fall on deaf ears and nothing ever changes you know where you stand. Don't keep trying to make it better. All you have is one first impression and people will always judge before they get to know you regardless of their age.
21) Maturity isn't relevant to age. Immaturity spans all socioeconomic statuses, races, genders, ages, etc. It does not discriminate but those with it will discriminate.
22) Don't lend money to friends or family if you're looking to get it back ever. It always turns out badly with hurt feelings. Your friendship and love are much more valuable.
23) Find one thing in this world that makes you laugh profusely every time you see it or hold it or do it and turn to that in your darkest hours.
24) Give in to crying your heart out - whether this is alone or with others or with a significant other - just give in to your feelings. Sometimes a good cry is all it takes for you to put your feelings in perspective and learn to work through it.
25) You're model is not always the right way. Even if you can't understand it or you don't support it or it hurts you to your core, you have to try and understand it from the other persons perspective.
26) Sometimes letting go is the hardest thing to do but the kindest gift you can give someone
27) Just because you've "always done is this way" doesn't mean it's healthy or right
28) Just when you think you can't go any further on your own, an angel will come into your life and bless you with the strength to keep going, to keep fighting, to rise above the surface of the cold darkness
29) Don't fight letting others in after they've proven to you over and over that they are on Your side. Trust that they love, care and want to help. Give them a chance. If anything at least you will learn something
30) Get moving every day (walk, run, yoga, pilates, swimming, etc). It increases endorphins and gives you energy for the day.
31) Trust those closest to you. Sometimes they know what's best for you even if you don't want to do it. Don't resist, let them help you. Let them love you.
32) Do something creative every day. It will improve your mood. Look up some design websites (www.designsponge.com) and many others. Make fun and goofy projects. They should be fun and fulfilling. Laugh, enjoy, love.
33) No way out may be the only way in - sometimes you have to hit the walls of your strength, intelligence and thinking to find what it is you truly want and need** 34) Miracles often arrive at the moment we depart from fear and head toward faith - sometimes we have to jump in head first and have faith that all will work out as it is supposed to. Fear prevents us from this - without it we wouldn't be human - with it we can be paralyzed.
35) The right word in the right place at the right time ... Through this, worlds are created and lives rebuilt. Sometimes, whether what we think or not, we need to hear certain things to make it all make sense. Sometimes it's not what you want to hear but what you NEED to hear
36) Nudges of the spirit are signs in Braille for the visually impaired soul. Without them we stumble eternally in a maze of darkness. - Listen to the whispers, to the nuances, to what the spirits tell you, what mother natures communicates, what your heart is screaming at you to finally realize. Find the light through these nudges, just listen.
37) Life is not worthing living unless lived with every fiber of your being. Never regret living - good or bad you always come out a better person.
38) Not all healthy decisions are easy decisions
39) When you start to realize you've lost yourself because of the sacrifices you have made in a relationship - it's time to walk away
40) Being alone is healthy. Learn to love you. Learn what makes you happy. Learn how to fly with your own wings
41) You will never know true joy until you have experienced true and excruciating pain. The pain is what allows us to know the difference in our experiences.
42) Always be the bigger person. Never stoop to playing games. All you have is your reputation, your feelings about yourself, and those who know you well. Count on the fact that even if being the bigger person hurts like hell, it's ALWAYS the right thing and in YOUR heart you'll know you did the right thing.
43) Take responsibility for your mistakes. It takes a really strong person to admit they did wrong. Be that strong person and never let anyone make you afraid to apologize. Even if they won't hear it, listen to it or take it to heart - do it. Do it b/c it is the right thing to do.
44) Ask for help. Nobody can do everything on their own. There are no superwomen or supermen, only humans who count on others to be there when they fall. It's ok to ask for help. It doesn't make you weak - in fact it makes you brave.

Found on another's profile - found it profound I am a submissive woman I find pleasure, joy, and fulfillment from being submissive to my Master in a loving relationship. I am not weak or stupid. I am a strong woman,with firm views and a clear concept of what I want out of my life. I do not serve out of shame or weakness, but out of pride and strength. I will look to my loving Master for guidance and protection, for never will I be more complete than when He is with me. I know that He will protect my body, my mind, and my soul with His strength and wisdom. He is everything to me, as I am everything to Him. His touch awakens me and His thoughts free me. Only in serving Him do I find complete freedom and joy? His punishments may be harsh, but I accept them thankfully, knowing that He has my best interests always foremost in His mind. If He desires my body for pleasure, I shall joyfully give it to Him and take pleasure myself from knowing that I have brought Him happiness. However, the pleasure of the flesh is but one facet of O/our relationship. The love, the trust and sharing, the words spoken and felt,those are all parts of this relationship. My body is His, and if He says I am beautiful, then I am. No matter what I look like to others, I am beautiful in His eyes,and because of that I hold my head high. If He says I am His precious jewel,then I am that a beautiful, sparkling gem. If He says that I am His pet, His slut, His whore, then I am that. As wanton and dirty as He wants me to be. My mind is His, to expand, to explore, to know only as He can. I have no secrets from Him for secrets are a thing that would keep me from being more perfectly His. Secrets would put a wall up between my Master and myself and I do not want walls. His lessons are not always ones I would seek on my own, but they are lessons He has decided that I need, and so I learn from Him. My soul is His, as bare to His touch as ever my skin could be when I kneel naked at His feet. Never a moment goes by when I do not feel His presence,be He miles away or standing over me. If I were to ever displease Him, His displeasure would be a blow to my soul, worse punishment than any lashes could be. The anguish of my soul that I feel when I disappoint Him is harder to bear than any physical anguish I feel. I am grateful that he cares enough about me to spend His time and energy so freely on me. I have the easier job, to feel, to experience,to let myself go and abandon everything to Him. I am His pleasure and His responsibility, and He takes both seriously. I am a submissive woman. I am proud to call myself that, my submission is a gift that I do not give lightly,and can only be given to the One who can appreciate that gift and return it tenfold. Only to my Master who has that strength, will I give myself fully,because I am strong and proud. I am a submissive woman. ~Author Unknown

I saw this on another persons profile on another site. It is the most meaningful thing I have read in many years. This spoke to me in ways I can't even describe. As I struggle to find my One and my true fit sometimes I falter and fall into the darkness once more. Even the darkest day has it's dawn. I wish to keep this in a place where I may read it often. It is solace, it is comfort, it is hope. Those who know me will know why this means so very much to me.

I have survived the past and continue to move towards the future. For a while, I lingered in the pain and agony of what had been lost, stolen, used and/or unappreciated. For a while, I believed others who tried to convince me I was somehow bad, evil or just unthinking. For a while, I tried to be with others wanted, expected or asked for, never being true to myself. For a while, I looked in the mirror and didn?t like who I saw, because I believed the lies. For a while, in the darkest of moments I cried lonely tears. For a while, I convinced others I was alive, yet I refused to live. Fear was my only friend. For a while I let fear guide me, stop me and hold me back from the cliff. For a while, I lost myself, stopped living and stopped seeing the beauty of each new day.

For a while, I lingered in the darkest of places, alone and afraid. Then just as I accepted the coldness in my soul and did not fight the dark emptiness attempting to destroy my soul, a warm hand caressed my cheek, soft fingers tangled in my hair and gently eased me into the warmth of a new beginning. In that moment the world stood still and the darkness retreated and fear?s battle was lost. The risk of living was great, but the risk of letting fear keep that which I hungered for the most out of reach was greater. I could embrace life, accept me for me, and allow happiness to begin healing the wounds of the past. Or I could continue to wither and die.

I chose to live and I wake each morning refusing to allow fear to take hold and suck me back into the darkness. I remind myself; life is meant to be lived with no regrets. I remember to laugh more and cry less. I find the joy in the little things and cherish those moments that change our lives and the people we share them with.

I have moments where I stumble and wonder if I will make it. I have moments when self doubt haunts me as I look in the mirror. It is in those moments when I am most vulnerable that I realize I am not alone, nor is my soul so tortured that it is no longer able to fly. I am reminded of the joy found in flying free.

Yet as I fly free, I often lose direction. Fear again attempts to ground me and pull me back to the depths of hell. But now fear has met its match. A tender embrace offers me a safe place to land, and the soft whisper of ?Let Go? ripples through me pushing the memories of the past further and further into the recesses of my mind. Slowly as I am guided into the light of day the pain of past hurts grows less and less painful and I fight the inner battle to let it all go and just enjoy the moment and all life has to offer.

In the end a rapturous joy has over taken me and I am free but control is no longer mine. Fate has decided otherwise and every once in a while fate can bring the greatest happiness if we just choose to accept what is offered. I have found peace, a sense of belonging and a feeling of being safe never experienced before. I have taken the greatest risk of my life; I have dared to be me.

I do not know what tomorrow holds, but I know what this moment holds so instead of fearing tomorrow I choose to live in the moment. I will try new things, try them a second time if I like them and find an inner satisfaction in having the strength to at least see what there is to see, do what there is to do and experience all the world will allow.

Finally at the end of the day, as the sun begins to set I no longer fear the darkness, but use it as a time of reflection. The quiet time that is needed for me and my own inner thoughts and feelings. I need the time I have alone, as not only does it help me to accept myself, flaws and all, but it brings a greater appreciation of those moments in my life shared with friends and family. In the quiet times I a reminded now of all that is lost, but all that I have.

I am far from perfect and still have much to heal within my soul. But it is a battle I am ready to face with a newfound conviction to not let the bad overshadow all that is good. In life there is pain, and there is sorrow, but there are also great things to be savored and remembered. Some wounds may never heal, some risks may still be to great and may always remain that way and I can accept those and still live and enjoy being me. I have become a cliff jumper and realize it is the real friend who does not pull you back from the edge, but takes your hand, offers a smile and leaps with you. So, let?s leap into the next unknown if for no other reason than to say we did it and laugh about it later.

Seriously, nobody reads profiles fully. Why the hell did I spend all the time writing it if nobody is going to read it? How hard is it to read through a few paragraphs?! It's not just on this site. I belong to other sites as well (kinky and vanilla) and NOBODY READS THE PROFILE!!! It's extremely frustrating and annoying!! Also, what's up with all the bigoted assholes contacting me on various sites? Do I have a target that nobody told me about? Oy all morons!! SCREAMS Now I have to go clean to calm down. Erghh.

The following are bigoted assholes not worth anyones time:

JusttheFactsmamm; takeitandlikeit; lovesblackpuss;

That is all for now. I am sure I will have more to add to this list. This site has become quite disappointing and I am starting to remember why I had closed my account in the first place. A few more week - that's all I'm giving this place and these people.

I hate people who think they know everything. I hate ignorant assholes who think that b/c they can't find a real slave, they don't exist!!!! STUPID POSERS AND FAKES LEAVE ME THE HELL ALONE!

Apparently when you reactivate a profile you have to re block people. Apparently I didn't do so quickly enough and got bombarded by morons. Fairly annoyed.

THE MASTER IS AN ARTIST, HIS SLAVE THE CLAY, WITH THE WHIP HE WILL SHAPE HER, WITH HUMILITY HE WILL MOLD HER, SOME WILL ADMIRE HER, BUT ONLY THE MASTER, NOT EVEN THE SLAVE, WILL KNOW HER TRUE BEAUTY, FOR HER TRUE BEAUTY LIES IN HER LOVE FOR HER MASTER.

Sparkling grey, They're my own veins. Any more than a whisper, Any sudden movement of my heart. And I know, I know I'll have to watch them pass away

Just get through this day

Give up your way, you could be anything, Give up my way, and lose myself, not today That's too much guilt to pay

Sickened in the sun You dare tell me you love me But you held me down and screamed you wanted me to die Honey you know, you know I'd never hurt you that way

You're just so pretty in your pain

Give up my way, and I could be anything I'll make my own way Without your senseless hate... hate... hate... hate.

So run, run, run And hate me, if it feels good. I can't hear your screams anymore

You lied to me But I'm older now And I'm not buying baby

Demanding my response Don't bother breaking the door down I found my way out

And you'll never hurt me again.

                              - Evanesence

To you, I will not name names, nor do I believe you are even on this site.

You will never hurt me again. The tears have ended and I hold my head high as I venture into the next phase of my life. I am done. I am free. You will never hurt me again.

Submission is trusting another person to take care of you and keep you safe. Submission is knowing that you live to please another and that your happiness is tied to theirs. Submission means a truly trusting and loving relationship that transcends any vanilla relationship anyone can have. Submission means loving someone so completely that it hurts to be away from them.

punishment = any act in response to something I have done wrong i.e i love pain so a punishment for me would be denying me that for a disrespectful action or whatever; discipline = reminders of how I am supposed to act i.e. reminder spankings 3 times a day or being fucked 3 times a day or having a limit pushed even if it's uncomfortable; play = i love pain so it could be anything that gets me wet like a spanking with a hairbrush

I feel secure knowing I'm doing my best, that my Master communicates his dislike and like without me being offended, knowing that he knows that I am his without complaint

submission truly makes a person happy, that person grows and changes and is healthy in their mental state. The Master helps the slave to do better and be better. Codependency keeps a person in the same unhealthy state. There is no growth.

If you as a slave consent to giving yourself to a Master you are giving your whole self without reservation and trusting that your Master looks upon your submission as a gift, therefore to deny him would not be in your or his best interest

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