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About dalloftheabove
I am an adventurous, intelligent, bisexual, polyamorous female artist and geek. I live in the mountains outside of Santa Cruz, California, in my own home on a small ranch, but spent about 1/2 my time in San Francisco. I have several other lovers currently and am open with all of them as to my lifestyle. I am polyamorous, and a VERY open person with regards to my kinks and interests. While I respect the wishes of partners wishing to remain closeted, I don't live my life that way. My focus is on shooting authentic lifestyle femdom movies using real couples and real submissives. Camera-friendly is a REALLY BIG PLUS for me. Disguises are just fine. :-) I like to brag and be occasionally outrageous, but can pass as classy and "normal" when I choose to. I take my partners physical and emotional comfort very seriously; I insist on safe, sane, consensual play and "safer" sex. I am creative, thoughtful, dynamic and witty. I like to challenge perceptions and presumptions, including my own. I keep up several jobs as a freelance artist, model, photographer and costumer. I wear a lot of hats and thrive on variety. I am interested in meeting friends, carpools, photographers and play-partners through the wild wide world of the internet. If I seem familiar, its because I am. I am active in the local BDSM scene and I consider myself an experienced switch. I will gladly provide references upon the request of potential partners.
I have a great deal of experience with regards to bondage, light to moderate pain, flogging, spanking, and D/s roleplaying. I have a passion for gender bending of all kinds, but abhor the stereotype of a "tranny chaser" - I don't like turning humans into fetish-objects except in specific scenes. I adore strap-ons, both as a top and bottom with any gender. I have a collection of pvc, vinyl and latex clothing.
I love roleplaying - in and out of the bedroom. I am a gamer as much as I am a kinkster, and prefer my partners to be the sorts of people that get my bad jokes and Dungeons & Dragons references. I am looking for the kind of play partner that will play "Apples to Apples" with me at a coffee house and laugh hard enough to fall out of their chair. When I am not kinking or working I play games, volunteer, dance, get involved in theater and the pagan community. I write & read erotic fiction. I model professionally for bondage and fetish artists and welcome inquiries from photographers in the Monterey and San Francisco Bay areas, but I am NOT into the pay-for-sex scene. In the meanwhile, being a bisexual switch into gender-bending means I get to make fun of everyone ;-)
What am I looking for? Genuine submissives who are able to appear with me in kinky movies as well as real life relationships. As lovers or play partners, I am interested in men, women, gender queers or couples. Body type or weight is a non-issue. I enjoy a VERY wide range of shapes, though my favorite aesthetically ranges towards "heavy." I don't care if you shave or not... as long as it makes you happy. Fuck societies fascist beauty standards! Generally, I do not shave anywhere, unless it is by special request or for a photo shoot. Its negotiable, but a pain in the ass. After 8 years as an active member of the SF Bay Area BDSM scene, I am astounded by the lack of respect shown in kinky online interactions.
I don't want to hear about how big your cock is (or isn't); that is the least of my worries. If its too big, we'll stick or oral, if its smaller we can augment it with toys. We can't as easily chance positions to get our PERSONAILITIES to fit. Tell me about yourself OUTSIDE of the dungeon/bedroom. Tell me about your favorite place to travel, the book you're reading lately, the roleplaying game that you are in. If pure sex is what I was looking for, I could find that at any dive bar in the state... tell me about what makes you special, and what part of my profile got your attention. Tell me about yourself, not just your sexual fantasies. |
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Yes, I am a fetish model and performer. I'm an artist of many types... but this ad is here for my PERSONAL life much more then my professional life.
I enjoy playing for cameras (exhibitionism is my most intense fetish), but I want to make sure I'm also making plenty of room in my life to play for fun and pleasure.
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After answering the same questions for so many people, it seems prudent to add that I am comfortable with large age gaps. I've dated people well into their 60's without batting an eye. Age isn't a barrier to me, though attitude is. |
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