Im not sure where to start...ive not been in a bdsm relationship before and i put submissive in this profile because that seems to suit me best. All i know about bdsm is what ive read online.

I know subs on here have an ideal about what kind of Dom they want, i really havent figured that out. There is lots i'd like to try, but im not sure i will actually like some of it. I do know im not looking for an instant relationship. I would like something that would start online before moving to real life. Im not willing to travel long distances to meet on my own dime...ive done that and it never turns out well.

I used to think i would want someone who has lots of experience, but i wouldnt mind finding someone who doesnt have as much experience but is willing to grow and try new things.

I am not willing to build a relationship with a married man. I have tried poly but that didnt work out. I would like to find a person who is looking for a serious relationship, not a fling.

As you can see i am overweight, but i have lost 57lbs since feb and am still losing. it is an ongoing project. I have 2 dogs a mom and her pup they are my life right now. They will always be with me.