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I'll be on vacation for two weeks beginning Saturday (8/25). I'm in/around San Diego. I'm open to sessions, but what I'm really looking for is a knowledgeable mentor (I find no shame in asking for a mentor, because there is always room to learn and grow as a person) and a thriving bdsm community in this area. I'm moving back east soon, but I'd like to experience this on the west coast, as well. email me if you have suggestions. |
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I'm moving to San Diego :o |
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Anyone in the mood for a shower? ;)
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Happy pride :)
What debauchery did you get into today (yesterday)? |
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I'll be in Brooklyn early Tues. Contact me if you're interested in scheduling a session of my choosing. I respect limits and am open to suggestions. I *am into showers. You've been warned ;) |
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I hope you'll be coming out to view the memorial day parades in nyc and bk. |
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I've got a task for a sub (male or female) who is service oriented. Contact me for details. |
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Like I've stated in a previous post I'm not interested in taking any more personal subs. I'm only dealing with paid sessions for now. |
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Don't contact me. I'm not looking for anyone right now. |
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Meh ... :-/
Perhaps I should just stop trying to actually meet up with people online. It's difficult to tell whether or not you'll have chemistry through a computer screen. And if you find that you have none once you meet up, you've already wasted so much time. |
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I've had a fantastic time in Fl, but finding someone for a session (that I feel 100% comfortable/compatible with) has been difficult, at best.
Oh, well. Back to NJ! Home sweet home :) |
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Thank you to those of you who gave me a truthful answer to my question and not just the answer that we both want to hear ;)
And for those of you asking, I didn't bring a dildo/strapon with me anyway so it would not have been an option. |
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Can someone tell me whether or not strap on sessions (for tribute) are illegal in Fl? I know they are in NY. |
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Wish me a happy birthday tomorrow :)
Lucky 100th! Hahah ;) |
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What's w/all the subs and slaves thinking that it's perfectly acceptable to offer me pleasure ... orally..
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I'll tell you what I just told someone else
I can (and will) bring you pain :)
I can (and will) USE you. Make you useful to me in some way/shape/form.
Those are the only ways that a submissive can bring me pleasure. Keep that in mind before you click Send Message. Oh, and reading is fundamental. Actually read my profile before contacting me. I don't care about how badly you want my toes in your mouth. I care about how it's going to benefit me. See above.
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My birthday is right around the corner. :)
The big XX... Well, if you know me or we are currently in communication, you most likely know my age. It's no one else's business...
I am currently seeing someone, though it is not a relationship based around bdsm or anything of the sort. I'm also seeing a sub who is a pleasant surprise and far from being similar to many of the chuckleheads on this website.
However, if you are someone who is interested in me, and your primary concern isn't getting your own jollies off before mine, contact me.
Do yourself a favor and don't bother messaging me if you're not going to fully explain how you intend to see to it that it is a mutually beneficial arrangement. You slobbering all over my toes (because that is what too many of you do and consider it to be "foot worship") and expecting that to be sufficient is NOT acceptable. |
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I'm currently attending foot fetish parties in NYC. If you think you're worthy & you love feet the way I do, contact me & perhaps I'll let you know when & where ;)
-D. |
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I am disgusted. I read the profile of a female sub who wants to "play" while her husband is overseas. Perhaps he is away on business but I am willing to bet he is in the armed forces. How vile is that? While he is fighting for his country, she is trolloping around. Don't encourage this disgusting thing who does not deserve to call herself a woman. I am a woman. Accept no substitutes. |
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Stop whining into my inbox. You know who you are [all of you]. That is all :)
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I want to use someone as a toilet. Do not confuse that with FT. I'm not in the mood, nor the right mindset for that right now. I just want my sweet warm piss to come rushing out and down into the mouth of someone lucky & worthy enough to receive such a gift. Mmm :)
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I need to finally get out there.. to a munch .. or simply a one-on-one play session with someone .. FINALLY. But I'm very indecisive and to say that I am picky is an understatement. I can't wait to make a trip to DFP [my second, ever!] for a leather flogger. I had my heart set on a nice black paddle for a while, but playing around with a couple of friends a few days ago with my mini-DIY floggers made me realize again how much I love them!
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I'll be going to Florida for about a week. I'm still trying to figure out whether or not I will be attempting to find any play partners while I'm down there, but feel free to contact me. You never know, I may end up finding someone after all :)
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I have been yearning for the feeling of hot flesh against my own. Someone to build up & then tear down all in the same breath, not only with physical blows. Show me that you are willing to be dehumanized, degraded, humiliated, mentally broken down & allow me to recreate you. I need to know that you will genuinely love it & that you will come back for more.
That special person who moans at the thought of being commanded to crawl toward me, not on hand and knees, but on his belly, like a helpless worm or a harmless garden snake in the grass. A creature who practically loses himself in my words and my scent, and who begs me to allow him to verbalize exactly how & why I am his superior.
As inexperienced as I may be, I can still recognize that none of you are able to make the cut. You're too selfish.
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The book arrived yesterday!
I probably won't sleep tonight :)
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Yes! I finally purchased Flagg's book,The Forked Tongue. I've been excited about this book for way too long.. it's about time! I can't wait for it to arrive [hopefully] next week :>
Have any of you read this?
Description:
This book is not
comforting; it does not reassure. It does not teach anything a decent
person needs to know. It is a book about BDSM, but it will teach you
nothing about tying knots, swinging floggers or spanking. It does not
comfort, it does not attempt to reach the vanilla public.
This book addresses control, it addresses change.
The recreational uses of humiliation, conditioning, psychological
torture, hypnotism and interrogation techniques are explored and laid
bare, broken into usable steps and understandable, applicable concepts.
It is a workshop of ruin, the tools necessary to cement lasting
alteration and unforgettable experiences for those few who truly crave
them.
From The Forked Tongue:
“This is not a 101 or “BDSM for everyone�. Actually, this is not really for anyone.
Most of the things that are in this book I
cannot sanction anyone doing to anyone else. Except, of course, that we
do, and we will, and we want to. So here are tools to do them well, to
do them ethically, and to enact your own, terrible sacraments. We seek
to ascend, so we descend.
I called this book a mixed message, a perverse
architecture, and so it is. The keystone of this edifice is inscribed
with the heart of all these chapters, these words cut at cross-purpose:
 “Here is something you should never do to anyone.
And here is exactly how to do it to someone you care about.�
(back cover text)
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People are so ridiculous. Someone whom I had been talking to on here [somewhat regularly for a short period of time] blocked me.
Why? That's what I asked myself, as well, but it turns out
it was because he could not get what he wanted from me. Tsk, as usual.
If your aim is to top from the bottom, do yourself a favor and don't click the send button.
I didn't even realize he'd blocked me until today. He messaged me,
short and very informal, as if he had not been inexcusably rude in the
last message he sent [quite some time ago, as I had not communicated w/him since then]. It's quite sillyfor him to send me a
message asking a question, but block me before I got the chance to
answer him. I think he got cold feet, but that's quite alright. Here
is my [shortened] response to you, cowardly little man ;)
Don't contact me again. I gave you an answer and you didn't like it, so rather than appealing to me on a mature level, you resorted to profanity. I enjoy seeing a persons true colors shine through, and yours certainly did just that.
You wrote, "why the hell did i talk to u.. u think i was interested in being ur friend..no i was interested in being ur sub"
My instincts about you were proven correct & this is precisely why I take my time messaging people through this website. The fact that you don't see that a personal [as opposed to professional] dom/sub relationship should first have a foundation of friendship/friendliness is ludicrous to me. You say "I" so many times, as if it's all about you and your wants. I am new at this, yet I think that you should go take a course on D/s 101. It's not about you, dearie. :)
You are not interested in being anyone's sub, you are primarily concerned with getting your needs met in a timeframe that is comfortable for you. Go find some woman who will allow you to top from the bottom, because I am obviously not that person. Good luck!
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I can't sleep tonight. Scratch that... I couldn't sleep LAST night. It's tomorrow already & I am still awake. I started watching Dexter & it erased any traces of sleep that may have been lurking around the edges. Looks like it's time for a Dexter marathon.
To quote myself [or rather, my away message]:
Something about his sociopathy is curiously arousing.
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Sometimes I log on w/o reading my messages. Sometimes I read my messages and don't feel like responding for a day or two [or ten]. I'm a big fan of this concept of showing a person that they can and will become back-burnered [meaning: I'll contact you when I damn well please. No sooner]. Please, don't hound me about reading or replying. Deal with it.
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& now for something completely UNrelated to BDSM:
I finally went to the movies to see The Dark Knight. EPIC! So much epicness [yes, that is NOW an official word. Crack open a Webster's, b/c it's in there, people] in one movie! I won't even give anything away regarding Heath Ledger's performance, so as not to diminish how impressive and powerful it truly was. Mmm, clown fetish. And to think, I was mildly afraid of them as a child (!)
Now, all I need to do is experience it in an IMAX theatre.
This movie lives up to, and surpasses the hype.
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Are brown showers a taboo subject on collarme? I think not, yet I have yet to see anyone make mention of any interest in giving or receiving. Send me messages describing your sick fantasies regarding brown. I want to know exactly who is in it to win it, hahah ;)
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I'll be in south florida from the 9th - 16th. If anyone wants to hang out, send me an email! & no, I don't mean that I want to hook up with anyone [esp not any of you foolish little boys], so don't waste my time by asking.
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You people must be illiterate. I'm changing my profile to *just looking for friends* b/c no women on here interest me & everyone else continuously asks me about boys. No. No. No. LOL, learn to read.
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I don't understand the stereotype that states that just b/c someone considers her or himself a dom, s/he must be overbearing and harsh at all times. I enjoy dominating, and I have done it in that way .. being a very strict & stern disciplinary. But I am very fond of staying true to my nature.
I have a sick, perverted little mind, but I am also very cutesie & sweet & I believe that that too can be incorporated into the domme "persona."
I could smack you in the face repeatedly & be giggling all the while. I think that's so much fun. Showing someone that you get so much genuine amusement out of causing them bodily harm.
Or, for that special man [or someone who begs and pleads hard enough], to be kicking you in the balls while smiling and caressing your face.
I love the mixture of sugar and spice. That's all me ... very sweet & loving, with a mean streak that loves inflicting pain on those who enjoy it the most.
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