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While I've identified as a "Switch", I'm not 100% that. I tend to seperate out sensation play (S&M) from mental/emotional play (D/S), though of course they can overlap. With that seperation, I tend to identify as a top and bottom for sensation play, and as a dom for D/S play -- but not as a sub. I also tend to find D/S play more intimate -- I'll happily and comfortably sensation-top (e.g. flog) someone that I'm not intimate with, casually at a party, including men. I'll also bottom in similar situations. But to Dom someone, that I find requires more intimacy, and more trust.
I am, also, poly in my outlook and expectations of romantic relationships.
So, what am I looking for here? A play partner or partners. Whether for private play, or public -- either can work. I often (4-6 times a year) host play parties myself, with a group of friends that are all into kink to some degree.
I have been actively into BDSM for something over 15 years at this point -- difficult to say exactly how long, and actively polyamorous for about the same amount of time.
Outside of kink, my interests include rock climbing (I generally climb 2-3 times a week) ballroom and swing dancing (1-2 nights a week), motorcycles (ride a Kawasaki Concours), Port, Scotch, board games, webcomics, and science fiction conventions. I travel a fair bit for work, and also for personal reasons.
If you might be interested, let me know.
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