I have been involved in the BDSM lifestyle for over 8 years now but I have had an interest in it for as long as i can remember.
so if you have an inquisitive nature and would like to explore this side of you, come and say hello to me..
I have been asked over the years to describe my kink, and who I am. I am me...
if you really want to know more about me... well I think kink came
to me when I was 5... I named my perversion when I turned 30, came out
into the BDSM scene in '99. Since then I have been involved in many
ways, from organising workshops, working and running BDSM clubs.. Now I
have taken a major step back.
as for what I am into.. Well I can be a sadist and a sensualist.
Over the years I have learnt one major thing. It’s about the look in
your face. If I can get it with a feather, well that's great, or it
takes 50 strokes of the cane, well that's... you know WEG.
I practice, Japanese style bondage, most forms or edge play (knives,
needles, fire), sensation play, impact play (flogging, spanking,
paddles, crops), electrical play (tens, violet wand), medical play
(perm and temp piercings, cuttings, speculum's), fisting, etc etc...
But as I said, its about the look, not what I did..
Some people think I am extreme, for they have seen be so extreme things
in a club. But you know, just typing you up and teasing you for 3 hrs
till you beg for release... hey that's alot of fun too.. But not
something that's visually spectacular as they expect in a club.. I have
a flogger made of calf suede, It makes an all might BANG when it
lands.. everyone goes, OOO AHH, that has to hurt... funny you can't
felt it.. but hey it has to hurt, because of all the noise it made.
I think it’s easier to say what I am not into... that would be scat,
and roman showers, everything else is negotiable, and under the right
circumstances may happen, but does not mean I will.
I don't subscribe to SSC (Safe Sane and Consensual), but I do to
RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). Why... well the things we do are NOT
safe... we do them for the thrill. Its not sane to cane someone till
their bottom is black and blue.. they might love it though... so why
spout SSC.
Were as, I am risk aware... I know the issues, and how to not kill you.
You know I wana play with you again.. it is consensual. gets off his
soap box now
so that's me..
Cyppie... Come say hello