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Cymmie - Female Submissive, San Luis Obispo California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About Cymmie

I am going to get straight to the point. I am looking for both a dom and a relationship. A partner in real life and someone who will take care of me in the bedroom. I have very specific needs in the bedroom. Most of which people either can't meet or just ask too much too soon. I will bend to my dom's will with ALMOST everything. I will try anything they want within reason. As long as they promise to keep my well being in mind. I am what's known as demisexual, which means in short, I can only have sex with those I love or it's seriously just not enjoyable for me. And it's not even like I choose for it to be not enjoyable, I just physically feel nothing during it. Which means, I need to love my dom before sex, it is not about the sex for me. It is about the partnership and relationship. So I move slow. It usually takes 6+ dates to get me into bed. I am not a submissive in the world of light, if you are looking for a sub 24/7 then you are looking at the wrong girl. I am bratty in the real world, and can be considered a balanced person (a partner). Though it's easy to make me see my dom's side of things and I will compromise on most things, I will stand my ground with things I feel strongly about. I am looking for a life long commitment. I am looking for monogamy.

I love where I live currently, I'm surrounded by friends and family. I might relocate for the right person, but I doubt I will. I am happy. I love animals, they are one part of my life no one will ever change about me. So if you don't love animals don't even try with me. I love to write, currently working on a novel, though not seriously. My name's Amber. I know this is a lot to take in and I might come off as... I dunno... pushy, but I know what I want and am tired of not getting it? I haven't had a heavy BDSM relationship before. Most of my BDSM relationships were my partner learning with me, and I haven't even had one of those in probably 9 months. So I'm a little out of practice, but am looking forward to being reintroduced.

I am only looking for a dom around my age so, 23-30 would be best. I keep my bdsm life separate from most of vanilla life, I don't let my family know I am into the lifestyle, though I know my mom probably suspects. Only my friends know much about that.

~Amber
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