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About cxlture
I choose switch because there wasn't an option for strange. Strange in the sense of physics, or as in bed fellows - not so much in the self-deprecating ironic use of the word. You'd think a person would fall under dominant, submissive, switch or vanilla but I find myself in more of a four dimensional state of mind right now. So picture a circle, with dom at the top, bottom at the... well, at the bottom, vanilla on the left and switch on the right. now make it a sphere, take that and imagine the center is also the edge and bam!.. I'm right there smoking a cigarette and typing this.
What do I have to offer? Someone more perceptive then myself might say I'm boring or bored, which is often it's genesis. I'd disagree though. I find that I'm so fascinated by life that even the smallest things will keep me entertained which has the side effect that I don't try very hard to find amusement. So what do I have to offer, again? Lot's of these types of defensive arguments for why I like to sit back and watch instead of grab hold and participate.
What am I looking for? Someone who likes to de construct fetishes while retaining the capacity to be turned on by them. Someone one I'm attracted to, to have sex with or wish I was having sex with or someone I have no sexual interest in at all but who I really like spending time with. Someone like that.
A note here about sex. It seems to be a taboo subject here. There is this tendency to think of sex as procreative or simulating procreation, or in the base vernacular, fucking. I include anything that is both intimate and sexual as sex. so when I say sex I don't mean fucking, nor do I mean to exclude it.
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