I am a young female new to this lifestyle. However, I do have enough R/T experience to know I identify more with being a slave then a sub. I am also not looking for an online situation. I am not looking to put on a cam show for you, or to have phone sex with you. I do not want someone who only cares about having sex. For me, it is about taking the time to get to know each other and developing a connection and the trust and communication essential to a M/s dynamic.