CuteKitsune


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	About CuteKitsune *Status* It is now Feb of 2012. We have a person staying with us getting stable and looking for their own place. He will most likely be here until Aug 2012but will update if that changes. *Profile Start* Cute and Evil are not mutually exclusive. I am a Domme not a sub. Call me Warden and not Mistress Large and knowledgeable are great traits. He is a mostly hands off Dom looking to see his wife happy with her kink. What we want is a single, no kids, 24 / 7 live in slave Traits required are obedience and loyalty. We do not care about your race, ages desired 18-28. Your physical health is important and looks are a bonus not a requirement. We have no interest in "taking it slow" If you come to us wanting to be considered you will be expected to be ready to commit within a month. We have zero interest in time wasters. We can move to a private chat room here on CM and will not use Yahoo, msn, or aol messengers. We will exchange email and phone numbers if we believe you to be a promising candidate. We are not interested in subs that do not live on the continental united states due to travel and legal hassles. *Old Statuses* Our pet having finished college summer 2011 and being happy with who she has become we now look for another pet but this time would prefer a female slave over a female sub. It is bitter sweet to know you've helped train a sub to become their own person and move n in the world. Now a spot is no longer filled in our lives and we have no desire to leave it empty. Was very cute and very loyal pet. She has been willing to try anything once and has surprised even me at how much she will do. She had absolutely no prior life style knowledge, truly an empty slate for which to train and teach. This profile was last reviewed or edited 21FEB2012

Updated profile to be more accurate with current status.

I have replaced a few of the pictures on my profile. I added a few pictures of recent events with my subs.

Currently all slots are filled up. I want to thank those who have been in contact with me for several months. I would also say don't let me being full on slaves right now deter you from speaking with me. I have not yet found someone who wants a 24 / 7 life time commitment yet however I am currently helping the ones I have learn more about who they are and what they want from both life and the life style. I will at some point place up a picture of one or more of them when they feel comfortable with the idea. As someone who has a fear of having her picture taken I'm in no position to be pushing that on others.

I'm off to Ohio for a convention tomorrow be back on Monday.

One spot opening for a Sub on June 1st. Priority given in the following order. Directness, Female, Male, Trans, 24/7 lifetime, Years, Months, Indirectness.

I like to make these things know ahead of time when able to allow for talking to people and weeding out the flakes and flakes. As always our home is a 1st come 1st live with home. We consider up to seven at once and the first one here gets the open spot. We don't have time for time wasters.

It can be frustrating when a sub from this site can not grasp the concept that it's hard to trust a profile name and empty promises. When a sub tells me they want to move to the next step I do so without hesitation. However, this is when most get cold feet. The fact that I am so sure of myself intimidates some, the speed in which I progress seems unsafe.

I do not suffer an unstable home life. I do not have to worry about family problems with my kink. I make sure to abide by all state and federal laws to the best of my ability. I have legal counsel that I can turn to when in doubt. I am not racist, sexist, or xenophobic. I am multilingual and multicultural. I am stead fast in my religious view and I have been trained to fight with a variety of weapons as well as hand to hand.

I know what I want from life and I know what I have to do to get it. I respect others secrets and don't care about their past only their future. I have my own dark past and secrets I will not talk about. I am not perfect and I embrace my flaws. I know others are flawed and I love them for it.

I see loyalty, I seek a submissive, I seek someone who needs my strength because they will never have it themselves.

It is my hope that when my home has an opening in it again, it is filled quickly by someone who wants a Warden like me.

Thanks Westernfog and Mona98 for unknowingly pointing out to me that I didn't make it clear when I would have open spots again. I've updated my profile.

I have a young girl living with me now who is new to the life and on the side I'm teaching a Switch to be a good Dom for his girlfriend so I am not currently looking for any one at this time. I will reflect that in my profile and update it when things have changed.

It happens, every so often you find a good, real, decent submissive on this site. However, because you and they have been burned so many times both of you expect it to fail. You look for the smallest flaw, the slightest hint of imperfection, you wait till they tell you something and claim "You should have told me sooner." even though you yourself would have done the same thing.

Even when one of you offers the olive branch to the other to put life back into something that shouldn't have died in the first place the other is so fearful, so worried, still healing from the old scars, they can not accept, but it can't be their fault either. They need to be able to blame you or they might always wonder what could have been. Sometimes, as a Domme, you have to let a perfectly flawed little submissive blame you to let their heart mend and hope they one day find happiness elsewhere.

We are all human and all make mistakes, interacting is like a dance and we don't even know our half much less our partner's. We will all pick the wrong time to say something but it is as much the why as the when and the when as much the way.

I was talking to a sub today who was leading down a line of questions they seemed to eager up front and then the questions started to get very pointed. Fishing, she was fishing for me to say anything she didn't like. She failed to realize she was talking to someone who will answer the question you ask and not the question you intended them to answer.

A sub i was talking to pointed out some of my likes and dislikes that clashed with them. It crossed my mind that I had not updated those sense I first joined this site and at the time of going through the set up process compared to now some things have slightly changed for me.

The biggest change is my increased toleration or even like of musics i did not enjoy or tolerate before. In the time I've been here my knowledge of both BDSM and of professional things have changed. My knowledge of politics and religion only ever improve. Several other small things have changed as well.

I think it is a good thing that a Domme can learn from a sub even if it is not their own. The moment we stop learning or believing we can learn about a given topic is the moment we have defeated ourselves. I know a lot, I do not know everything, I am rarely wrong, but will be the 1st one to come to you and say "I messed up." Being a Dominant does not mean being flawless and perfect. It does not mean having a large ego and a whip. It means having a force of will so strong those without come to you to guide them in the way you think it best. They place their trust in your strength but that does not mean they are without strengths of their own.

As sleep claims me slowly I think about my already sleeping husband. I think of the open spots in my home for two subs and try to think about the details to be covered when they get filled. How to explain them to friends, what foods they might not be able to eat, which blankets to give them. Will something need to be moved or have I made sure there was ample space. The kind of thoughts any mother would have when expecting a foster child. Owning a sub is in many ways like adopting a child. It comes with it many of the same concerns and basic requirements. I head of to let sleep claim this small body that I might face another bright and happy day.

The love of my life has decided to become more proactive in my search for a pet. I have converted my account to a couples account and of course my main picture has always showed both of us. I know there are a few subs out there looking for a couple. Now we are in the market as a couple and not just me looking for a pet just for me.

I've been back from vacation for awhile now. I've been very busy with work and play alike. I have not been posting as much in my journal because I haven't felt it was worth my time.

I think it is the same reason most who disappear from a site such as this do so. You come here hoping that maybe this site unlike the others will help you find what you seek. You find it is not yielding results and you leave.

I will not leave yet for it may yet help someone else find me, however I can not justify being here as often as I did in the begining. As messages in my box have dwindled and prospective pets have either been found lacking, fearful, or in a few cases found me to be "to real"

To real ... I've heard those words here a fair amount. I've come to understand them to mean a few things. I will try to explain them as much to you as myself.

Each sub has a fantasy, many want to be collared and controlled. However, most don't want to live that life 24/7. Some think they want a strict Dom but when they actually get to read what that's like they realize they want something softer.

Who I'll accept is also a limiting factor. Simply put most people are ruled out before they even start. The fact I know exactly who I want, what I'll accept, and stick to it has two effects. The first is more obvious, less people will come to me in the 1st place. The second effect is less obvious. My very personality, and even my conviction intimidates some subs. I've been told of one sub who is to afraid I'll turn her down she won't talk with me.

I'm told I'm to real because I reveal to much of myself. So much so it almost seems fake. Instead of putting 5 kinks and 8 lines of text in my profile I fill it up to try and answer every quest one might have. This removes the mystery and wonder that play into some fantasies. It also reduces the amount of early banter people are used to.

This early banter plays a key roll in many online relationships. It lets you get a feel for how the person asks and answers "What are your kinks?" or "How tall are you?".

These questions serve not to tell you how tall I am but to tell you how I as a person answer that question. Do I give you a 5'8" and send you a message with no other content or do I send you my hight eye color hair color and say I'm about as tall as some object? The numbers alone tell you I'm either short with my answers or your not worth typing too. The long one gives you an image of me that goes hand and hand with a picture. Also the object I chose tells you something about the way I think. If I compare myself to a certian car you assume I have that one or a friend does. If I compare myself to a bunch of 8th graders you assume I'm into some kind of middle school activity. This gives you something more to ask.

I remove the ability to ask a question by answering it in advance. This is good and bad. I also do not tend to care as much about who the sub is before they come to me so much as how they will be once here.

So the end result is I will stick around and keep checking in. I will be here for that submissive that wants a home under this Warden's charge and is ok with the fact that I don't care who they were before or what they did. I care about who they are and what they will do. I offer a warm bed and a firm hand. The offer will stay open until someone fills that bed.

So I woke up this morning and ripped right through a very week Western Union Scam. The person started off going for big money but by the end would have settled for a few hundred and ended up with nothing. I of course ended up getting a fair dose of amusement noticing all the ways they could have improved the scam.

I think my level of honesty makes people think they can take advantage of me. I grew up in a world of lies, tricks, abuse and much more. I've seen the darkness that lurks in a persons soul and I've smiled at it. I know how to lie but hate it. I can see a lie often within the first few moments however I like to let people lie to me right up until the point they think I'm their sucker and then point out all the flaws in the lie. Hard sells in stores fail on me, email and phone scams get me asking just enough questions the other person pulls out. I've waited years to find a replacement pet. I'll keep waiting years. I might never get one. That's ok.

My standards are high. I've been told when it comes to treating someone like a pet or property I'm to real. I was talking to a submissive that traveled across the county only to be stood up. The would be owner was a no show. Insane, it made me want to pull her through my computer and give her a big hug. For both of us. Things like that hurts honest people like me honestly looking with the ability to commit. It hurts subs because some give up everything, job, place to live, and more just to be left with no one and nothing. Times like that I wish I could afford to take in all those who have legitimately had that happen to them. However it is impractical and most wouldn't be interested anyway.

While writing this journal entry yet another scammer posing as a slave replied to my inquiry. It was clearly preplanned dribble as they called me master and mentioned kinks that have nothing to do with my interest. It's rather sickening that people like that are why I can't get a good pet.

The sound of the rain was nice last night. Though it was a bit cool for me the freshness was nice. I don't often pay the rain much heed other then taking a few safety step if I have to drive or walk in it. However it really is quite peaceful when you just watch and listen. I think it's how everyone is though, not just with rain but with other people. You walk by a stranger in the store and you don't think. That person has a past they've lived and seen a lot of things. They have likes and dislikes and may or may not be interested in my hobbies.? We more just walk past them as if they were a rain drop on our car window. Came from the sky moved out of our way and disappeared.

I tend to get introspective from time to time. always looking to make myself better then a I was yesterday even if just a little. I hope each of you has a good day and don't forget that person that is in-front of you at check out, they have a past every bit as important to them as yours is to you.

Was asked another good question, Do I smoke. SO I've added the answer to my profile along with some other information. It is my hope that someone will be able to have most of their questions answered by my profile so that we can avoid the communication issue that I seem to have with so many subs who are afraid to ask basic question for fear of offending me.

I am here to find a pet or two. I am looking for long term relationships. To this end I feel it is only right that a sub knows exactly what they are getting into when they join my house hold.

Had a photographer come to my place today for some pictures. For those that don't know I have a massive fear of camera's It's my only phobia and it really is no fun at all. I endured over 200 snaps and flashes. Now it's over and done with I will have pictures within 2 weeks and won't get another picture taken for at least two years. I've know people with fear of needles or heights and I some times wish I had a phobia that was so easy to avoid. Fear of heights stay on the ground and don't fly, fear of needles just avoid doctors, fear of having your picture taken ... We live in an age where anyone can pull a phone from their pocket and in 2 clicks have a picture. I've gotten good at dodging the pictures and just going to a store can be rough. Fortunately I can order food and supplies online. I think everyone has a phobia even those that claim not to. The difference is not everyone can avoid their phobia through normal life. I'm still alive, still here and my soul wasn't sucked out but I still don't like it any more then before the first click.

At lunch today someone said they were bored. Well Now I have an answer for their boredom and maybe yours. Here it is created one night for an online pet who claimed she was bored. It was written for a V.R. game and has been converted for your pleasure.

http://www.kinkyames.com/boredom.rhtml

Today I joined collar me under the advice of a M/s couple who recently got married (yay! for them). I have added a detailed profile filled with a large amount of my likes and dislikes not just lifestyle ones. I feel everyone is more then the sum of their kinks and looks. Within 10 minutes I got bombarded with people well outside of my interest with three small gems amoung them. Even though I design web pages and focus on SEO it still took me by surprize that I could get such results in so little time. As a result I refinded my profile to better help slaves find out if I am the owner for them.

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