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I use my journal to vent my annoyance at the idiots on here. Looking at my entries it sounds like I am not a happy girl but don't worry folks, for the friends I do have on here, they know otherwise ;-)

sternbutfullofbullsh*t sends random arrogant messages to submissives and then blocks them so they can't reply.A Dom would not be so cowardly...FACT.

Apparently now, a simple thanks but no thanks in response to mail is simply just not good enough according to a certain 'Dom' on here.  In an earlier journal I mentioned about doms whinging because subs don't reply to their mail..please make your minds up :-)

Thanks but no thanks simply means, sorry, not interested...nothing more, nothing less.

Him: Hello from the coast how are you more importantly where are you?

Me: After reading his profile and noting he is looking for something specific that holds no interest to me, I respond with .... Thanks but no thanks.

Him: Okay your loss

Me: Why is it my loss?

Awaiting response...however, whatever the response is, if any, it doesn't matter, the point is if you ask for respect on your profile, then show the same respect when someone shows respect by replying to your mail, even if they are'nt interested.

I constantly read Doms complaining that subs don't reply to their mail and above is precisely reason why some subs don't.

To have respect for myself and be proud of that is far more important than flogging a dead horse.

I do have limits and anyone who says otherwise is kidding themselves.

Oh, dear, someone a bit bitter because I dared to state my age restrictions, he may as well have said 'you're not a twue sub because you have a mind of your own'.

Now, hope that clears things up for anyone else who wants to be 'clever'.

Gets up again, brushes the dust off.

Someone needs to mind their own business ;-)

Today has shown me that whilst you can compromise on some things in life, in others, you know you have to stick to what you know is best for you because you never know what is around the corner.

An angel with a deviant mind he said to me, I smiled.

But oh! the blessing it is to have a friend to whom one can speak fearlessly on any subject; with whom one's deepest as well as one's most foolish thoughts come out simply and safely.  Oh, the comfort - the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person - having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words, but pouring them all right out, just as they are, chaff and grain together; certain that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and then with the breath of kindness blow the rest away.  ~Dinah Craik, A Life for a Life, 1859

How very true :-)

All is well in Cupkate world :-)

Sometimes CM reminds me of Alice Through The Looking Glass except in reverse.

Can hear the cogs turning from here ;-)

Yes for those who have enquired, I took my profile pic myself. Naturally forming erections  are a sight to behold.

Sometimes you have to look at things from a different angle but remember, always follow your gut instincts.

Do not be too timid and squeamish about your actions.  All life is an experiment.  The more experiments you make the better.  What if they are a little course, and you may get your coat soiled or torn?  What if you do fail, and get fairly rolled in the dirt once or twice.  Up again, you shall never be so afraid of a tumble.  ~Ralph Waldo Emerson

Geeze...another tosser added to the pile.

Just read something on a profile that made me very bemused...terrible, I know, submissive's aren't mean't to speak but only when spoken to.

Well, that is fine and dandy if the submissive is your submissive.

If I look at your profile but don't contact you it means your profile was of no interest to me and don't take it personally or that we are engaged or anything.