I have a view on relationships that, I believe, is very unique. I am a "tri-cultural" person in that I've been raised by Asian parents born in a passion-centric South American society and grew up in an American culture.
I am proud and thankful for my background. I wouldn't have it any other way. But with this gift, I know my views are often misunderstood as some cultural virtues conflict one another. I am blessed with such a rich background and it has given me a strong path to knowing what I want and how to achieve it.
I have a belief that my sexual side and my social side don't necessarily have to meet. I'm a very private person and I respect others' privacy as well. However, I don't believe people will know much about my private side because they simply know me as their friend. Even my best friends don't know about my private side. That's just how I am.
During the day, I'm quiet and laid back. I can get goofy at times. However, most of the time I am very neurotic (in a good way). By that, I mean that I am constantly thinking and always trying adapt new ideas to the current situation (thus, that's why I'm quiet). I usually let things go because for me it is more important to control the situation than to control individual things. At night, I'm very different from that. I want full control of what is going on at night and I usually do it to the benefit of everyone around. If not, I won't involve myself.
I believe the most important thing to know about me is that I work more on a psychological level. I don't play mind games but rather I expect the sub to understand my mind and to commit to the thoughts we share. If she is waiting on a physical level to respond, she will be disappointed... and so will I.
