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| I am a queer, poly adult baby girl, who in addition to seeking awesome friends and community, is looking for a fun-loving, affectionate, and dominant Daddy. Someone who is secure in themselves and in their desire for a Daddy/babygirl relationship, and who likes diapers, ageplay, humiliation, watersports, spanking, and other such fun things.
I am rather shy and protective about this aspect of my personality, but generally I respond to all respectful and substantive messages.
Homophobes, misogynists, conservatives, and fundamentalists need not apply. You must be *this* progressive to ride the ride.
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"Big" me is creative, intelligent, adventurous, and career-oriented. I love camping and being in the outdoors, shooting pool at the corner bar, impromptu drum and dance circles, and listening to anybody with a story to tell. At the end of the day, I'm just a big cuddly bunch of contradictions: a trained academic in a blue-collar field; a butch tomboy with a penchant for pink panties; a dominant personality and a natural leader who desires a partner she can trust and respect enough to follow sometimes.
"Little" me ranges from about 1 to 6. I like the whole spectrum of play, from innocent to dirty, helpless and dependent to bratty and rebellious. Some favorite playtime activities involve wrestling and rough housing, trips to the playground, coloring, building toys, jigsaw puzzles, assorted naughty games, watching cartoons, and cuddling with my Daddy while I suck my thumb.
This is a lifestyle for me, but I'm realistic about what that means. There is definitely room in a 24/7 dynamic to breathe, relax, do grownup things, connect intellectually as equals, and fully engage in vanilla life as well. I strive to be an open, engaging, and supportive partner to my Daddy as well as his precious little girl.
I'm looking for an independent, friendly guy, not too far from my own age, who is mature, honest, intelligent, caring, and at least a little experienced. Casual play does not appeal to me; I am looking for somebody I connect with on multiple levels, and who is open to the possibility of developing an intimate romantic relationship. I am emphatically uninterested in financial support, monogamy, or anyone with an unaware or disapproving romantic partner. I will travel within the region for the right situation, and may be open to relocating somewhere down the line.
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An addendum:
I do not identify with a certain dynamic that many 'daddy doms' seem to seek. I am not broken, aimless, or unable to function in my adult life. I do not need to be guided, mentored, molded, managed, or directed by somebody who thinks of himself as superior to me. I seek an equal, intellectually, socially, and sexually, who views kink as a collaboration, not a contest.
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Back in Milwaukee after a long time gone, hoping to hook up with a more local queer/genderfucky perv pack. Say hey. |
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Grammatical thought of the day:
I vastly prefer dominant daddies to daddy dominants.
The noun is the identity, the thing-in-itself; the adjective modifies, describes, explains, and specifies. The noun exists on its own; the adjective is dependent on the noun for meaning. To me, a Daddy is the former, not the latter. Daddy is the person, dominant is the descriptor. Daddy is the motive, dominance is the means. A Daddy who dominates, who is a Daddy first. I am a baby first. My submission flows naturally from the gratitude and devotion I give without thinking to the man who can be my Daddy first. |
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I find the anger that oozes out of some men's profiles online to be really unattractive and a little scary. We're all on the internet. All the real people out here are annoyed by fakers, scammers, and game-players. I get it. But ranting about it in your profile screams "I have an entitlement complex, the self control of a five-year-old, and nothing better to do with my time than throw a tantrum in full view of strangers." This doesn't discourage the people you're trying to discourage. They couldn't care less about your frustration and pain. It DOES discourage the real and sincere people who might otherwise want to get to know you, but don't want to be on the receiving end of all your paranoia, rage, and broken dreams.
You catch more flies with honey, honey. Didn't your mama tell you? |
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I've decided to conduct an experiment. For years, I have been trying to formulate a response to the incessant, hypersexual, one-handed horny net geek emails I get here and other places. Something quick and dirty that communicates the following key points:
1. Your message is vulgar, inappropriate, and vaguely threatening. It is not going to get you positive attention from women.
2. Fuck you. You knew all that and did it anyway, because you are an entitled douchebag.
So from now on, any straight guy who emails me in this manner is getting a picture of the biggest, ugliest penis I can find on my hard drive as a response. Sort of like how you spray water at a cat when it tries to hump your leg. You can't reason with horny. |
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Blizzard, blizzard everywhere, and not a drop of kink. |
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Might be time to kick the hornet nest again. Merry Christmas Perverts! |
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I'm taking a break from this site and maybe my kinks for awhile. The emotional energy I expend being an open and sincere person in a sea of, well, stereotypical collarme-types just isn't worth it. I'm sure I'll be back eventually. Until then people: courage. |
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Many times in BDSM I feel people get overly invested in props. My favorite toy? Hands. Big, rough, caring, demanding, full-force hands. Daddy's hands. Hands that tease, restrain, spank, slap, stroke, choke and make me beg for more. Hands that stripe my arms purple from pinning me to the mattress. Hands that run gently through my bedroom hair as a whispered 'good girl' fills my ears. Hands so powerful that I shiver whenever they move, unsure if they will bring pleasure or pain, unsure which I would prefer--but certain, always, of my craving.
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I want a puppy. Preferably a human one :D Don't you think every babygirl deserves a puppy?
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Since several folks have asked lately:
I have zero interest in having a Mommy. I have nearly zero interest in involving a woman in any context where I am expressing my 'little' side. Grown-up cuddlemonkey loves the ladies, but baby cuddlemonkey has a serious Electra complex. I am fixated on the 'abusive single parent' archetype and seek that in a primary relationship with a Daddy. A dyadic bond of 'unhealthy' obsession, neediness, vulnerability and manipulation, where he exploits my isolation and desire for attention for his own perverted purposes. Where my 'little' self is held tight under lock and key, only for Daddy, always for Daddy, Daddy's secret vice, Daddy's whore, Daddy's punching bag, Daddy's precious little girl.
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Vocabulary term of the day: phatic communication. Learn it, live it, love it. Or just google it :D
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Sometimes I think all it would take for a daddy to win my heart (and my vagina) would be an independent understanding of the theme of my profile's 'hard limits' list.
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I love that the placeholder image in my photo upload section is a drawing of a bald girl, naked, hiding her face in shame. Yum.
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| Age: 27 |
| New York,
New York |
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