Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.” - Bob Marley  

what a great quote :)

Finally at a point in life where its time for a positive change :)   things are exciting and I have no real reason to stay in ohio anymore!!    I will take a few months to chart my course and will pick a new destination in early summer!!  some of us who say we can relocate  really can, and I am one of those lucky few!!!!   

Deleted un read.........it seems so rude to me!!! If someone takes the time to read your profile and sends an intelligent message that follows what you ask for, why not check out what they sent you.  You can always send a polite thank you but im not interested.  Civility and manners make a difference!!   If someone walked up to you in public and said hello would you just turn around and walk away??  The funny thing is that the same people who seem to do this here are always complaining on their profile about fakes and time wasters!!  go figure  

I wonder if most here want a slave who just does what he is told; I would think the true joy in owning a slave is in training him to be yours, in getting him to the point where he doesn't always have to be told how to make you happy.  when your slave thinks of you with all his heart and your happiness is the only thing that matters to him; then you both have reached that magical place!!  Doesn't any one else want that here :(

A strong sub doesn't throw himself at the feet of just any woman.  Nor does he lose sleep or fret over the many goofs here on this and similar sites.... He waits patiently, is proactive in his life and his search and knows that in time the right Mistress will be found!  Some might find pleasure in dominating the weak.....but isn't it more rewarding to know your boy is slave to you but not anyone else!  Always respectful and a good representation of you and your training, but not submissive to others without your direction.  That's what I seek and the type of woman I will find one day!!! 

How can someone send you a message without ever viewing your profile first!!!  and then when you don't respond or take them seriously they accuse you of being fake!!  Maybe its just me, but I send messages to people im actually interested in, and the only way to  determine that initially  is by reading what they wrote about themselves.  It is a silly place this collarme :)  

Tried vanilla again, when am I going to learn!!  lol     sticking my head under her skirt every chance I got must have freaked her out, and I never even mentioned to her that I was hoping she would use a strap on on me!!! :)    oh well back looking for my one :)

Please enough of the messages from Dominant men!!!   I believe in Female Superiority, and love and respect women.... why would I feel submissive to other men??  Are you guys so desperate that you have to message straight male slaves??  ugggggggg!!      Does the approach of being rude and obnoxious when messaging complete strangers really work?   well obviously not!!!!  that's why you have turned to sending straight guys messages!!!    Try being respectful and honest in initial messages.  I wont speak for others, but my guess is a lot of slaves feel like I do,  try being nice and normal!!!    you can degrade and punish later, when there is an actual connection in place...         

I'm not really sure I understand why some people have multiple profiles here...  1 is frustrating enough!!!!!   lol

Prayers to every one in Oklahoma

Is it odd to have a knee fetish???   I have been thinking of those sexy little places on a womans body......  The arch of her foot, small of her back, the collar bone and of course those lovely knees !!!!!   mmmmm :)        now to find someone who wants those little yummy spots worshipped

I have been thinking a lot lately about chemistry and connections.  Its funny, but I have known I was submissive for as long as I can remember. With that being said, I don't just drop to my knees at the appearance of every woman who happens into my life. In fact I think it quite the opposite usually.  My submission is what fuels my alpha characteristics in daily life..sort of the yin and yang or balance we all search for. What im looking for is the special woman who will drive my submission, and for that the key is chemistry and connection.  any of us who have been around this site for more than a day or two can quickly decipher the goofs and fakes here. Its being true to ones self and looking with open eyes that can cause magic to happen!!  Connections and chemistry cant be discovered from a picture or a journal entry, but rather through taking the time to get to know some one.  I know its easy for a slave to say, as he isn't swamped with messages from all angles and at all times, but if what your doing isn't really working why not change things up a bit!!  The slave or Mistress you dream of might just be right there waiting for you :)     

I am back to try this again here at CM......    as a slave I guess this could be considered punishment!!!  lol          it is so tough to weed through this silly site.  I tell myself that it will only take meeting one amazing woman, and it will have all been worth it, but wow is it tough to stay positive.  I wonder which side of this coin is more frustrating??  Mistresses get their  in boxes stuffed with crazy, goofy messages and im sure that sucks!!!!  slaves get no mail at all and often times just get ignored completely..  what seems like a perfect place to bring like minded people together, is instead a quagmire!!!   its kind of sad actually..  oh well sorry for my rant, its a beautiful day and I hope everyone enjoys it and finds some peace in their search :)   

i wonder why so many women respond with "not looking at this time " both in messages and on their profiles??  isnt that why we are all here....to make real connections!!   it seems like a waste of time, if your just checking stuff out here everyday :)

i was looking through some profiles, and came across one from a lovely Dominant woman... inside her profile she mentioned that she was looking for a slave and tpe relationship.......  her next statement was that she hates facial hair, and any pics with such hair are deleted!!!!  if your a Dominant woman, why not just pic someone who you like and then tell him to shave when he becomes your slave??? lol

Hope everyone had a great holiday :)   and was able to spend some time with family and friends!!!

Its funny here on cm!!! so many Doms complain about fakes and time wasters, but when an honest sub looking for something real makes contact these same Dommes flake and dont respond!!! maybe this whole place is just fantasy :(

i hope everyone had a great mothers day!!!  a chance to celebrate wonderful women every where, and to let them all know how important they are :)

smile smile smile......   they cant get you down if you dont let them!!!!!!!  :) 

back to collar me after almost 2 months away :(  how sad!!!!   my first night back and 2 women wanted me to send them money!!!!   why is it so hard to find a real Mistress.... oh well when i meet her this all will have been worth it!!!!!     my glass is half full always!!!!! lol

Merry Christmas everyone :)        its not as much fun without a Mistress, but im going to keep looking!!!!

Wondering why there are so many Dominant women who are on business trips in foreign countries!!!! lol  im submissive but not silly!!!!  lol