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Ctwriter - Male Dominant, Hartford Connecticut | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About Ctwriter

Connecticut Dominant, seeking female submissive.

Dominant male, divorced, successful and established, seeking female partner to explore your desires and fantasies. I am sane, experienced, and seeking a partner for pleasurable times together. This is a collaborative relationship where we work together to train you to be the perfect submissive slave.

One important thing you should know about me before you continue reading; I am not in this only for the sex. If you're looking for sex only, then stop reading here. I'm looking for a partner who enjoys the bondage and domination part of the inner mind. A partner who understand the relationship between a man and woman, dominant and slave. We don't do this only for the sex, although sometimes it is great during a session. We do this for the sensation and freedom it brings, when we both express our inner desires. The desires we keep hidden from the world during the day.

I am not a drug user, and disease free. You should be the same. I am a social drinker, and not a smoker. I will not play head games, and I am not a control freak.

I am very active; beach, spinnng, gym, softball, and lacrosse when time permits. I'm hoping you enjoy being outdoors, and have fun with me.

I have a great sense of humor, or so I am told, and hope you will have the same. Would want you to laugh with me when things do not go as planned.

You need to have a great imagination. My imagination is found in my writings. I am currently in the process of developing a new business opportunity with the potential for immedate expansion.

However, and most importantly, I want you to be you when we are together. I want you to be relaxed when you are with me. I want to know about the part of your mind that very few people, or possibly on one else, knows about. Your need to be a submissive. I will always remember you are a woman, a tender female, who needs attention and compliments, and a hand to slide through your hair to show emotion. I never forget that deep inside the submissive is an intelligent, caring, woman who needs to feel she is wanted, and needed, and part of a relationship.

I want you to live out your darkest fantasies, your suppressed hidden desires, with me:

Maybe you have a fantasy about being bound and naked, helpless and humilated, while the Doctor’s gloved hands manipulate your breasts, and then probe every opening of your tender and helpless body. The latex gloved fingers are well lubricated before they deeply probe the tight openings of your body. If you enjoy or need the sensations of medical devices, they can be used to genly open the the orifices of your body. You'll struggle, but your moans will betray your desire for deeper examination.

Or you’ve been bad at work, and need to go over my knee for a spanking. Your expensive skirt or dress pulled up onto your back. Your panties pulled down around your knees. One of my hands holds you down, while the others makes the cheeks of your ass red.

Or maybe you’ve been very bad, and need to be helpless before the cane licks your soft behind until you’re squirming with pleasure. Ropes around your wrists secure you over a chair, or over the end of your bed. Other ropes around your ankles prevent you from closing your legs. Then I begin the punishment. It can be as light or severe as you like.

Or possibly you have a gynecological fantasy, where you need to be examined thoroughly after you receive and hold a warm and soapy enema. After two quarts of the warm solution flows into your body, the nozzle is replaced by an inflatable plug. It prevents the water from leaking from your body as the cramps begin. The examination will be very through and have you moaning, or screaming, on the bed or floor before it is completed.

Do you have a hidden desire, fantasy, for public humiliation? In a crowded mall filled with shoppers, you walk from store to store in a very short skirt and heels. You bend forward to inspect items on the lower shelves, revealing to the other shoppers you are not wearing panties. They see everything. You know everyone is talking about you, and that knowledge that you are the center of attention begins to make you very excited.

Do you a kidnapping fantasy, where you are in a parking lot, walking to your car? A car stops beside you. The driver asks for directions. He shocks you, dragging you into his car. He forces you down onto the back seat where he ties your wrists and ankles together with ropes, before he gags you with tape. He drives you to a secluded stop where his fingers slip under your clothes to explore your body. I will leave the rest of the action to your imagination.

Maybe you enjoy the sensation of tight leather bondage. Your wrists, secured together with leather restraints are attached to a rope overhead. Leather restraints around your ankles and the steel spreader bar between them, holds your legs apart. A leather gag fills your mouth, muffling your attempts to plead with your Master. Your naked body is vulnerable and helpless, ready for your Master’s use, any way he wants to enjoy you. The paddle, clamps, the vibrator?

Does your fantasy involve more sadistic treatment? Maybe you enjoy tickle torture? Orgasm denial in bondage? Something more severe? Let’s talk about and make it a reality.

The possibilities are endless, limited only by your desires and wants, both of which we can discuss. If you enjoy any type of role playing, that can be worked into the activity.

I enjoy seeing a woman dressed in lingerie and heels, bound and helpless. Or, a business woman returning home for lunch or after work, bound and helpless on the floor, or on her bed. Her clothes are slowly stripped away to reveal a soft warm body to be used by her Master. Imagine kneeling before your Master naked and vulnerable, leather restraints around your wrists and ankles, giving you the sensation of total helplessness.

Most importantly there has to be mutual respect for one another. This cannot be a one-sided relationship. We need to understand each other’s’ desires and wishes, and limitations, and not move beyond eithers limits, without first discussing it.

If you enjoy public exhibitions of bondage and domination, we can visit The Society in Hartford. You can watch the action and if it excites you, you can join the action as an active participant.

If you are new to this lifestyle, or considering this lifestyle and want to discuss it with no obligations, please send me an email with your questions and we can discuss.

I'm open to email relationship, and phone conversations, to determine if there is chemistry between us. We can also share pictures at that time. If we feel we do share some things in common, we can discuss meeting in a public area for coffee or dinner.

When I began my writing career years ago, I started by writing for a nationally syndicated publications based in California. Their specialty was bondage and domination magazines and video productions. I wrote stories and scripts for them. If you enjoy bondage and punishment fiction send me a note and I will send you a story. The stories range from mild to extreme punishment, so tell me your preference, or you may be shocked! I may have a new mainstream novel hitting the bookstores early next year, and will send the name to everyone after the publisher completes their review.


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